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There's no cut off. People are just pointing out clear positives and negatives. Of course grandparents should be allowed to raise their grandchildren if a tragedy occurs. But again, be aware that if the grandparents is older than 55 when the grandchild is born, it is quite likely the child will experience the death of another parent figure while still a child. That is something to consider if there are other options, for the best interest of the child/ren. |
My friend was adopted by his mother, who was 54 at the time. She did an amazing job raising him. So, yeah, yay granny moms! |
| her husband is 39 and i'm sure wanted a kid. i'm sure they used a donor egg. Shady Grove's cut-off for DE is 51, but i'm sure other clinics are different. |
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The post is about a person who is 10 years older than you having a newborn, but way to make everything about you! |
| I have no issue with her age, but she is kind of a hot mess... poor kid. |
See the thing is lots of grandmothers are raising their grandchildren so I don't see how this is much different. More power to her. |
Yep agree! |
Um, first of all, I'm from NY. Second of all, you completely missed my point. My point was the huge age difference between oldest and soon to be youngest. You seem very defensive about your family planning. Maybe deep down you DO feel like 45 was old to be having a child. 45 is not 54. |
| I'm so exhausted having a baby/now toddler in my 30s, I can't imagine wanting to do it all over again in my 50s. But I'm not her and she's not me so my preferences/experience don't have anything to do with hers and vice versa. |
| If you are buying different eggs why wouldn't you just buy a uterus too? I just can't see asking my 54 year old body to carry. Just do the donor eggs, use his sperm, and get a surrogate. |
She looks a lot older. I think it’s sun damage, though. I am 51 and very fair too, but I’ve lived under sunscreen and hats and umbrellas all my adult life. My skin looks 20 years younger than hers. Her legs look like my 77 year old mother’s. But looks aren’t health. If she’s healthy and can do this, more power to her. |
Are you looking at the same woman bc she looks every bit of a good 60 or older. |