Flirty realtor update

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is this your post, OP>

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/725228.page

I'd bet money

A few bucks, at least

[Anonymous]

Let us know when he leaves, OP.

[Anonymous]

OP, you are not vindicated; you are feeling very insecure in your marriage and that is the issue.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, you are not vindicated; you are feeling very insecure in your marriage and that is the issue.

I feel for Op. If my husband were having meetings with flirty real estate agents behind my back without mentioning it , you bet I'd have a problem with it and "feel insecure"! That is totally not normal, unprofessional, and troubling. Sorry OP. I would have a very clear conversation with my husband where I laid out expectations that any meetings would either be between all three of us or atleast discissed on advance. She should care about her professional reputation.

Have none of you seen the curb your enthusiasm episode about this?!! Jeff is having an affair with the realtor at all the different houses he tours, lunchtime trysts, and in the end, Susie picks up on it, and picks the most expensive house that Jeff claims they can in no way afford, but gives in when he realizes his wife will let him slide if he buys that house. So the realtor wins both ways in the end.

So funny. This sounds like a real life version.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you are not vindicated; you are feeling very insecure in your marriage and that is the issue.

I feel for Op. If my husband were having meetings with flirty real estate agents behind my back without mentioning it , you bet I'd have a problem with it and "feel insecure"! That is totally not normal, unprofessional, and troubling. Sorry OP. I would have a very clear conversation with my husband where I laid out expectations that any meetings would either be between all three of us or atleast discissed on advance. She should care about her professional reputation.

Have none of you seen the curb your enthusiasm episode about this?!! Jeff is having an affair with the realtor at all the different houses he tours, lunchtime trysts, and in the end, Susie picks up on it, and picks the most expensive house that Jeff claims they can in no way afford, but gives in when he realizes his wife will let him slide if he buys that house. So the realtor wins both ways in the end.

So funny. This sounds like a real life version.

A lot of realtors are divorced, hot cougars. She knows flirting will help close the deal and maybe get a little on the side too...

[Anonymous]

Omg OP why do you care!?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You know you can purchase the male equivalent of chastity belt (i.e. penis cage) on Amazon. Just make sure you keep the one and only copy of the key and you're golden.

Let her try to get past that!

Trust me there are ways....

[Anonymous]

I could see a situation where, if your marriage was crumbling, you might be a bit more flirtatious with no intention of follow through. Just want validation and to feel good about yourself.

OP - let it go.

[Anonymous]

I'm confused how the realtor's divorce proves she was coming on to your husband.

I also have this question.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP sounds cray cray.

+1

[Anonymous]

I'm looking for a realtor, got a link for her?

[Anonymous]

Thank you to those Ladies giving me support! lol I'm not crazy, I'm just a mom that was looking for a house with my husband but was swamped with our 2 preschooler kids when this flirty pretty realtor suddenly appeared in our lives when buying our first home.

This was our first home that we were buying and it was a real eye opener. I am surprised by how some women who are salespeople act towards married men bottom line. I was taken aback by how flirtatious in nature she was. I'm not kidding you all when I say that she was laughing so loudy and eagerly with my DH that I could hear her from the back bedroom (where my preschooler ran off too) when she was chatting with my DH in the kitchen. And equally appalled that my DH was happily chatting back and perking up to her flirtatious nature. I have NEVER seen that before in our whole marriage! lol

I'm not saying that my DH caused her divorce, nothing like that at all. I'm simply stating that on her end, it proves to me that she was "going through" something in her own marriage and either innocently or trying to meet a need for (family, closeness, support, proving she still "has it", insert whatever) that she did indeed act that way. And it was inappropriate.

All in all, I'm over it now. It raises some interesting issues and conversations. For example, DH now knows if a salesperson or a coworker acts overly flirty towards him that it's NOT APPROPRIATE to engage back when you are married with children!! To a women's ear you have to say something indirectly to give them a clue that you are married with kids instead of engaging back so they understand. "Oh, my wife will kill me if I'm late picking up my children from the daycare" or " My wife would love that couch". etc... Women understand that kind of talk and I'm had to tell him what he needs to say basically to show a measure of respect.

[Anonymous]

Op, you continue to sound really insecure.

Was that previously posted link from you, too?

[Anonymous]

Hey OP, maybe she has evidence that such an attitude toward the husband of a couple interested in buying houses pays off big time in the end, so she has incorporated this strategy into her real estate repertoire and it works!

Just a thought.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, you’re so obviously not over it. Maybe you should think about why your husband isn’t flirty with YOU. I can’t imagine it’s because of your insecurity, bossiness, and lecturing lol