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[Anonymous]

DH made a "mistake" and failed to tell me an important detail....the detail being that a certain someone (business professional) we are working with met with him and another person. She was only at the location with him and the other person for 10 minutes and the conversation was business in nature. However, he purposefully omitted this information because he knew it would incite a few questions from me and possibilly upset me.

This is wrong, no?

[Anonymous]

You sound extraordinarily controlling and your husband doesn’t need to have his movements monitored.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You sound extraordinarily controlling and your husband doesn’t need to have his movements monitored.

Case closed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You sound extraordinarily controlling and your husband doesn’t need to have his movements monitored.

What if I add that the professional is a little flirty in nature.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You sound extraordinarily controlling and your husband doesn’t need to have his movements monitored.

What if I add that the professional is a little flirty in nature.

You are nuts. Your poor husband.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You sound extraordinarily controlling and your husband doesn’t need to have his movements monitored.

What if I add that the professional is a little flirty in nature.

You are nuts. Your poor husband.

What? So if your spouse meets with people and tells you about the meeting but conveniently fails to tell you a certain someone is there, you wouldn't be upset?

[Anonymous]

Is she the real estate agent?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You sound extraordinarily controlling and your husband doesn’t need to have his movements monitored.

What if I add that the professional is a little flirty in nature.

You are nuts. Your poor husband.

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What? So if your spouse meets with people and tells you about the meeting but conveniently fails to tell you a certain someone is there, you wouldn't be upset?

Okay warden. You are so twisted in your thinking there is no way to reason through this. Your spouse is abused.

[Anonymous]

OP you are nuts. Truly crazy insecure.

Your poor husband.

[Anonymous]

There’s always going to be some detail that you claim your spouse “purposely” omitted and you will use that “fact” to justify tighter and tighter control and paranoia until you eventually have no relationship. What do you expect? An accounting of his movements? An ankle bracelet? A male burqa? You need therapy.

[Anonymous]

I’m assuming there is a backstory

[Anonymous]

Unless they've had an affair in the past you are so far out of line, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m assuming there is a backstory

Why would you assume that? Some people are ultra-controlling and paranoid. My ExW was that way. It got to the point where I couldn’t even talk to family privately and there was NO back story.

[Anonymous]

Are you vindicated, OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH made a "mistake" and failed to tell me an important detail....the detail being that a certain someone (business professional) we are working with met with him and another person. She was only at the location with him and the other person for 10 minutes and the conversation was business in nature. However, he purposefully omitted this information because he knew it would incite a few questions from me and possibilly upset me.

This is wrong, no?

He spares you being upset and you are still upset. No winning with you, lady. You twist his good intentions into bad one. I promise you, he will be better next time, you would not find out.