Men and emotional connectedness

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A problem presents itself. Doesn’t really matter what it is. Women want to discuss the problem, her feelings about it, wants to share the problem and her feelings about it with her girlfriends, wants to know her girlfriends’ feelings about it, wants to know her husband’s feelings about it...

Husband? He wants to drive to Home Depot, buy the materials and tools he needs to fix the problem, and then fix it.

Wives, do you want your husband to listen to you? Then be quiet and listen to him. Not simply not talking while you are mentally constructing a response, but actually listening to him. He listens to you much more than you comprehend. Just because he doesn’t openly react or immediately call all his buddies because Macy’s overcharged you, doesn’t mean he isn’t listening.

Yes, he wants sex all the time. But he only wants sex with you. Please notice that fact.

This is so small minded. Not everyone is like you. There are plenty of men with low sex drives who don’t listen. I know because I’m married to one

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sex is high on the list plus we do spend a good amount of time together. My DH is quite affectionate for a man so I often get a neck rub or a smooch. He's not a hand holder but I feel we are pretty connected.

Because he knows if he gives you a neck rub or whatever, he gets more sex. It’s actually quite binary.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A problem presents itself. Doesn’t really matter what it is. Women want to discuss the problem, her feelings about it, wants to share the problem and her feelings about it with her girlfriends, wants to know her girlfriends’ feelings about it, wants to know her husband’s feelings about it...

Husband? He wants to drive to Home Depot, buy the materials and tools he needs to fix the problem, and then fix it.

Wives, do you want your husband to listen to you? Then be quiet and listen to him. Not simply not talking while you are mentally constructing a response, but actually listening to him. He listens to you much more than you comprehend. Just because he doesn’t openly react or immediately call all his buddies because Macy’s overcharged you, doesn’t mean he isn’t listening.

Yes, he wants sex all the time. But he only wants sex with you. Please notice that fact.

This is so small minded. Not everyone is like you. There are plenty of men with low sex drives who don’t listen. I know because I’m married to one

You are correct!
I am a great listener with a high sex drive, and a vasectomy! Like to meet?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sex is high on the list plus we do spend a good amount of time together. My DH is quite affectionate for a man so I often get a neck rub or a smooch. He's not a hand holder but I feel we are pretty connected.

Because he knows if he gives you a neck rub or whatever, he gets more sex. It’s actually quite binary.

LOL - I can't argue with that!

[Anonymous]

When my DH gets home from work I usually give him a pretty serious hug which is a nice way to start the evening. But sex that is satisfying for both of us is the real connector. I did a fun thing to him last night after which he really made my evening.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When my DH gets home from work I usually give him a pretty serious hug which is a nice way to start the evening. But sex that is satisfying for both of us is the real connector. I did a fun thing to him last night after which he really made my evening.

Details, please?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When my DH gets home from work I usually give him a pretty serious hug which is a nice way to start the evening. But sex that is satisfying for both of us is the real connector. I did a fun thing to him last night after which he really made my evening.

Details, please?

Without being too explicit it involved using both hands around his private areas at the same time.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When my DH gets home from work I usually give him a pretty serious hug which is a nice way to start the evening. But sex that is satisfying for both of us is the real connector. I did a fun thing to him last night after which he really made my evening.

Details, please?

Without being too explicit it involved using both hands around his private areas at the same time.

Prostate massage is good for emotional connection!

What did he do for you?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:When my DH gets home from work I usually give him a pretty serious hug which is a nice way to start the evening. But sex that is satisfying for both of us is the real connector. I did a fun thing to him last night after which he really made my evening.

Details, please?

Without being too explicit it involved using both hands around his private areas at the same time.

Prostate massage is good for emotional connection!

What did he do for you?

It wasn't a full PM but as close as I've gotten. I rolled on my side and he knew exactly what I was interested in.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:When my DH gets home from work I usually give him a pretty serious hug which is a nice way to start the evening. But sex that is satisfying for both of us is the real connector. I did a fun thing to him last night after which he really made my evening.

Details, please?

Without being too explicit it involved using both hands around his private areas at the same time.

Prostate massage is good for emotional connection!

What did he do for you?

It wasn't a full PM but as close as I've gotten. I rolled on my side and he knew exactly what I was interested in.

Aah - you're living the dream!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When my DH gets home from work I usually give him a pretty serious hug which is a nice way to start the evening. But sex that is satisfying for both of us is the real connector. I did a fun thing to him last night after which he really made my evening.

Details, please?

Without being too explicit it involved using both hands around his private areas at the same time.

Prostate massage is good for emotional connection!

What did he do for you?

If I did that to my DH he would wonder where I've been hanging out and with who. Or are we just prudes?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:When my DH gets home from work I usually give him a pretty serious hug which is a nice way to start the evening. But sex that is satisfying for both of us is the real connector. I did a fun thing to him last night after which he really made my evening.

Details, please?

Without being too explicit it involved using both hands around his private areas at the same time.

Prostate massage is good for emotional connection!

What did he do for you?

If I did that to my DH he would wonder where I've been hanging out and with who. Or are we just prudes?

Tell him you read about it in cosmo.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:When my DH gets home from work I usually give him a pretty serious hug which is a nice way to start the evening. But sex that is satisfying for both of us is the real connector. I did a fun thing to him last night after which he really made my evening.

Details, please?

Without being too explicit it involved using both hands around his private areas at the same time.

Prostate massage is good for emotional connection!

What did he do for you?

It wasn't a full PM but as close as I've gotten. I rolled on my side and he knew exactly what I was interested in.

Aah - you're living the dream!

What is PM?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:When my DH gets home from work I usually give him a pretty serious hug which is a nice way to start the evening. But sex that is satisfying for both of us is the real connector. I did a fun thing to him last night after which he really made my evening.

Details, please?

Without being too explicit it involved using both hands around his private areas at the same time.

Prostate massage is good for emotional connection!

What did he do for you?

It wasn't a full PM but as close as I've gotten. I rolled on my side and he knew exactly what I was interested in.

Aah - you're living the dream!

What is PM?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Give him plenty sex and he'll feel an emotional connection to you. Easy!

It's just sex? What about talking or feelings?

ROFL.

It's sex. Or blowjobs. Or both.