Brother behavior-why so bad together??

[Anonymous]

My boy7/girl4 fight like crazy. They choose to play with each other but drive each other crazy. Just when I'm watching them play and smilng at this beautiful family I've created, they snap and go into monster mode.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My boys are 6 & 9 and this is my life! They start first thing in the morning and wake everyone like an alarm clock. I have a girl as well and I will say there IS a different dynamic to the boy's play and it's so hard to turn off the rowdiness sometimes. I cannot sign them up for the same camps because they won't leave each other alone.

...if you had 2 girls you would not be saying this. I have 2 and 2 and agree with PP, it's a sibling thing

Do your girls generally go from hugs to punching/wrestling in the drop of a hat?

I had all sisters. Sisters get verbally aggressive.

I have all boys in a neighborhood of boys. Brothers get physically aggressive.



There is a difference.

My sister & I sometimes fought physically as kids. We had good family friends with 2 gumirls the same ages as us & they fought physically as much (if not more) than any brothers I've ever known. Meanwhile, my 2 nephews (brothers) almost never physically fight, they just argue.

It is a personality & dynamics difference, not a gender difference.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Who are these people that derail every thread where someone mentions having a male child in order to insist that there are no differences between boys and girls? I was just on a thread in the decorating forum the other day where this happened. It's bizarre.

I thought op said she had daughters that fought like brothers.

[Anonymous]

Oh goodness. I have a 6 yo girl and 7 yo boy and they fight like cats and dogs. I thought it was because of the closeness in age! I'm following for advice, too. I feel for you, OP.