Wife is about to leave me, don’t know what to do

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife is looking to end our marriage. I have been unfaithful. Not with a person in particular, but I have an ugly online cam habit in that I pay for these online sex cam websites every now and then. My wife and I haven’t been intimate in a long time. Part of that is my fault for frequenting these sites. Not the first time she caught me either. Promised her last year I’ll stop using, which I did, but then I get lonely and horny and I’m looking at them again.
I somehow justify it as just porn personalized porn. I don’t know their names and it’s a transaction to me. But I understand why she’s unhappy abou it.

We’ve had a long relationship and it’s been a rollercoaster. She cheated on me years ago and that almost ended out relationship. She was remorseful, she changed. I didn’t get over it for a long time and we stopped having sex. I just couldn’t. And then it became a way of life. She didn’t want to push me, but also never tried very hard to entice me. She’s been a great partner since, while I’ve acted out. I never cheated with another woman in person, like an emotional affair. I’ve just been looking at viewing porn and these camgirl sites. But I know it hurts her and still did it.

I was out on a business trip and she saw my cc statement. Told me not to come back home etc, so I got a hotel. Been 4 days and I think it’s finally over.

What?

[Anonymous]

You're a sex addict. They come in many forms. If you're putting a cdm girl sex before your wife thrn you need help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Troll. This reeks of troll.

I agree. Like a teenage troll. I'm sure Jeff will put a stop to this.

Who would troll like this. Sounds pretty genuine. You sound like a troll though. Whoever Jeff is should put a stop to you

[Anonymous]

She cheated on you and had actual body contact sex with some guy who knows who you are and probably still lives nearby and is possibly still a threat. You manned up and stayed with her.

She discovers your porn habit and now wants to leave you??! For watching images on a computer screen while jerking off? She isn't one tiny bit as forgiving as you were.

[Anonymous]

her reaction seeems unreasonable. i hope you can work this out.

[Anonymous]

I would much prefer if my DH had a relationship with a real live human being that was mutual than pay to watch some random girl do whatever it is they do. That is just pathetic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would much prefer if my DH had a relationship with a real live human being that was mutual than pay to watch some random girl do whatever it is they do. That is just pathetic.

So you would rather have your hubby have sex with your best friends and share mutual emotions as opposed to looking at porn. Given it’s a more personalized version of porn. I think you actually don’t understand how these cam sites work. Unless OP fell in love with one of them. I think cheating is way worse. Not even close

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would much prefer if my DH had a relationship with a real live human being that was mutual than pay to watch some random girl do whatever it is they do. That is just pathetic.

So you would rather have your hubby have sex with your best friends and share mutual emotions as opposed to looking at porn. Given it’s a more personalized version of porn. I think you actually don’t understand how these cam sites work. Unless OP fell in love with one of them. I think cheating is way worse. Not even close

+1
ridiculous

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would much prefer if my DH had a relationship with a real live human being that was mutual than pay to watch some random girl do whatever it is they do. That is just pathetic.

So you would rather have your hubby have sex with your best friends and share mutual emotions as opposed to looking at porn. Given it’s a more personalized version of porn. I think you actually don’t understand how these cam sites work. Unless OP fell in love with one of them. I think cheating is way worse. Not even close

Frankly, i'm not willing to pick from the two lovely options. How about this? I would prefer that my spouse not cheat with a live person or be a pathetic porn addict? I think it's reasonable to have this expectation. Sorry OP, you're pathetic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would much prefer if my DH had a relationship with a real live human being that was mutual than pay to watch some random girl do whatever it is they do. That is just pathetic.

So you would rather have your hubby have sex with your best friends and share mutual emotions as opposed to looking at porn. Given it’s a more personalized version of porn. I think you actually don’t understand how these cam sites work. Unless OP fell in love with one of them. I think cheating is way worse. Not even close

Frankly, i'm not willing to pick from the two lovely options. How about this? I would prefer that my spouse not cheat with a live person or be a pathetic porn addict? I think it's reasonable to have this expectation. Sorry OP, you're pathetic.

You’re not giving up. We get it. Your hubby must be the best person in the world who has never looked at porn. Must be lucky to be with you...hahah.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would much prefer if my DH had a relationship with a real live human being that was mutual than pay to watch some random girl do whatever it is they do. That is just pathetic.

So you would rather have your hubby have sex with your best friends and share mutual emotions as opposed to looking at porn. Given it’s a more personalized version of porn. I think you actually don’t understand how these cam sites work. Unless OP fell in love with one of them. I think cheating is way worse. Not even close

Frankly, i'm not willing to pick from the two lovely options. How about this? I would prefer that my spouse not cheat with a live person or be a pathetic porn addict? I think it's reasonable to have this expectation. Sorry OP, you're pathetic.

You’re not giving up. We get it. Your hubby must be the best person in the world who has never looked at porn. Must be lucky to be with you...hahah.

I think most reasonable adults understand that most men (and women) look at porn...what OP describes is clearly and addiction. So he's a pathetic addict and I too would kick him to the curb.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would much prefer if my DH had a relationship with a real live human being that was mutual than pay to watch some random girl do whatever it is they do. That is just pathetic.

So you would rather have your hubby have sex with your best friends and share mutual emotions as opposed to looking at porn. Given it’s a more personalized version of porn. I think you actually don’t understand how these cam sites work. Unless OP fell in love with one of them. I think cheating is way worse. Not even close

Frankly, i'm not willing to pick from the two lovely options. How about this? I would prefer that my spouse not cheat with a live person or be a pathetic porn addict? I think it's reasonable to have this expectation. Sorry OP, you're pathetic.

You’re not giving up. We get it. Your hubby must be the best person in the world who has never looked at porn. Must be lucky to be with you...hahah.

I think most reasonable adults understand that most men (and women) look at porn...what OP describes is clearly and addiction. So he's a pathetic addict and I too would kick him to the curb.

he says he does less than once a month. he also doesn't have sex with his wife. it doesn't look like an addiction.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would much prefer if my DH had a relationship with a real live human being that was mutual than pay to watch some random girl do whatever it is they do. That is just pathetic.

So you would rather have your hubby have sex with your best friends and share mutual emotions as opposed to looking at porn. Given it’s a more personalized version of porn. I think you actually don’t understand how these cam sites work. Unless OP fell in love with one of them. I think cheating is way worse. Not even close

Frankly, i'm not willing to pick from the two lovely options. How about this? I would prefer that my spouse not cheat with a live person or be a pathetic porn addict? I think it's reasonable to have this expectation. Sorry OP, you're pathetic.

You’re not giving up. We get it. Your hubby must be the best person in the world who has never looked at porn. Must be lucky to be with you...hahah.

I think most reasonable adults understand that most men (and women) look at porn...what OP describes is clearly and addiction. So he's a pathetic addict and I too would kick him to the curb.

I think you made your point. Op came here to get people’s opinions. You made yours. Now you can stop spamming and let others give their opinions.

Like some On here. I think you need to
Kick your habit to the curb. Stop hiding behind the porn. But I also think you have some unresolved issues with her cheating. I’d like to know more about that. You equate her with whoever she cheated with.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would much prefer if my DH had a relationship with a real live human being that was mutual than pay to watch some random girl do whatever it is they do. That is just pathetic.

So you would rather have your hubby have sex with your best friends and share mutual emotions as opposed to looking at porn. Given it’s a more personalized version of porn. I think you actually don’t understand how these cam sites work. Unless OP fell in love with one of them. I think cheating is way worse. Not even close

Frankly, i'm not willing to pick from the two lovely options. How about this? I would prefer that my spouse not cheat with a live person or be a pathetic porn addict? I think it's reasonable to have this expectation. Sorry OP, you're pathetic.

You’re not giving up. We get it. Your hubby must be the best person in the world who has never looked at porn. Must be lucky to be with you...hahah.

I think most reasonable adults understand that most men (and women) look at porn...what OP describes is clearly and addiction. So he's a pathetic addict and I too would kick him to the curb.

I think you made your point. Op came here to get people’s opinions. You made yours. Now you can stop spamming and let others give their opinions.

Like some On here. I think you need to
Kick your habit to the curb. Stop hiding behind the porn. But I also think you have some unresolved issues with her cheating. I’d like to know more about that. You equate her with whoever she cheated with.

You're hilarious. You try to dictate who can comment here when you clearly either wants 1) salacious details or 2) fancy yourself an armchair psychologist. How about YOU go away.

[Anonymous]

You need to be honest with yourself, OP.
Do you want to continue the relationship if you can't have sex with her because of the past. This is an important aspect of any relationship. I understand that you guys love each other as people, but you also need to show love and lust.
It seems you two are too sexually distant and if you don't work on it, it is bound to happen again.