Anyone else been a one night stand?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I have and it left me feeling bad for a while. I was at a strip club and the stripper really liked me (this sounds so cliche). She asked for my number and if she could come over and hang out on her way home. I had been divorced and dateless for a few months and she was extremely hot so I gave her my number. Honestly, I expected to never hear from her again. She called me on her way home and came over. Of course I used protection but she got on top and pretty much rode my bed off of its rockers.

Afterwords we talked and I mentioned that I was divorced (because of wife's affair) and she mentioned that she was split and in the process of divorce. I felt terrible for sleeping with someone who was still married. She wanted to hang out again but I couldn't do it.

I've never heard of a stripper going home with someone before. You must be pretty good looking or charming or something.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Please move this to explicit. Gross!

Hi church lady, it's not Sunday yet

[Anonymous]

Only twice have I ever "given it up" on the first date. The first guy never called again and the second one I married so I guess that's not technically a one night stand!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I have and it left me feeling bad for a while. I was at a strip club and the stripper really liked me (this sounds so cliche). She asked for my number and if she could come over and hang out on her way home. I had been divorced and dateless for a few months and she was extremely hot so I gave her my number. Honestly, I expected to never hear from her again. She called me on her way home and came over. Of course I used protection but she got on top and pretty much rode my bed off of its rockers.

Afterwords we talked and I mentioned that I was divorced (because of wife's affair) and she mentioned that she was split and in the process of divorce. I felt terrible for sleeping with someone who was still married. She wanted to hang out again but I couldn't do it.

I've never heard of a stripper going home with someone before. You must be pretty good looking or charming or something.

I'm tall, fit and reasonably attractive but really nothing to write home about. Women don't throw themselves at me but every once in a while I get comments or compliments.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don’t look at it as being used. You weren’t a one night stand. You had a one night stand. And yes, I’ve had my share. Sometimes a lady just needs to get laid.

What PP said. Re-cast the experience. You had agency, you made your fun. You were a protagonist. No need to fret about it. I've also had my share and turned down plenty when I didn't feel like it.

Exactly! You go, girl! Allow yourself to think fondly of the experience! What is there to regret?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Only twice have I ever "given it up" on the first date. The first guy never called again and the second one I married so I guess that's not technically a one night stand!

Married mine as well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Please move this to explicit. Gross!

Please grow up. Sex Ed happens in middle school now.

[Anonymous]

I miss those days.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not since my early 20s, but man were those good times. And pretty easy to make happen as an attractive female living in the city

Let me correct this for you - "as a female." You need not be attractive or living in a city.

[Anonymous]

I say enjoy the experience.

I love the conservative, tight-ass, judgemental women on this site. Learn to live a bit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I say enjoy the experience.

I love the conservative, tight-ass, judgemental women on this site. Learn to live a bit.

Why do you assume they're women?

[Anonymous]

I didn't know people had sex after 50. Good to know!!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's kind of gross at that age.

Apparently he didn't think so.

Why is it gross?

Be careful, you may grow up to be bitter if you stop having sex at 40.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Only twice have I ever "given it up" on the first date. The first guy never called again and the second one I married so I guess that's not technically a one night stand!

Married mine as well.

That's funny. Me, too.

[Anonymous]

I have had a few. Male here. Last one turned out to be crazy. And she knew where I lived. Showed up uninvited a couple of times to "hang out"...Not cool.

Others were fine. Lost my V to a ONS. In that case, I probably attached to much emotional attachment to her. I was 17, she was probably in her 30's.

There are only two problems with ONS that I see: if your intro to sex is ONS, then it could warp your thinking, and two, you are sleeping with someone you don't know which means you do not know if they are crazy/stalker type, if they have any diseases (you know they are willing to boink on the first date). Condoms are a must today.