Anyone else been a one night stand?

[Anonymous]

I had a ONS while I was separated a number of years ago. I had been sexless for almost two years and I was at a business conference (predictable, huh!) and met a guy and to make it a short story we ended up in my hotel room. It wasn't my proudest moment but at that point in time I just needed sex. I had no expectation that it was going to be anything but a ONS. He did wave at me the next day!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had a ONS while I was separated a number of years ago. I had been sexless for almost two years and I was at a business conference (predictable, huh!) and met a guy and to make it a short story we ended up in my hotel room. It wasn't my proudest moment but at that point in time I just needed sex. I had no expectation that it was going to be anything but a ONS. He did wave at me the next day!

How was it? Actually enjoyable?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had a ONS while I was separated a number of years ago. I had been sexless for almost two years and I was at a business conference (predictable, huh!) and met a guy and to make it a short story we ended up in my hotel room. It wasn't my proudest moment but at that point in time I just needed sex. I had no expectation that it was going to be anything but a ONS. He did wave at me the next day!

How was it? Actually enjoyable?

PP here - It was great. I was so uninhibited knowing it was just a ONS. I told him exactly what I wanted and he was very good at it. I'm now in a LTR and from that experience I've learned to be very open about what excites me.

[Anonymous]

I've had many one-night-stands. I never contacted them afterward. I usually got up and left as soon as they fell asleep. That's the point. You aren't looking for a relationship with them, it's just sex. I'm female, btw, and I've noticed that for some reason many women want to read more into it than what it actually is.

[Anonymous]

I've had many and don't regret any of them. You enjoyed yourself and it broke your dry spell. Let that be a positive thing.

[Anonymous]

It's kind of gross at that age.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's kind of gross at that age.

Huh? There is an age limit for enjoying casual sex? I'm glad no one told me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's kind of gross at that age.

+ 1 million

[Anonymous]

Why you saying you "were" one rather than you "had" one? Get it girl!

I've been married for 10 years and with my husband for years before that but I had plenty in my 20s. To be fair at the time i usually wanted more.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm 56 and divorced and dateless for the past two years. Last Thursday I was at a charity event and met a very nice man and we really hit it off. My friends whom I had ridden with were leaving early and he offered to give me a ride home. On a whim I invited him in and one thing led to another and then to another. I was definitely the initiator which is not normal for me but after a few years of no sex I was really ready. The sex was wonderful and I know he was very happy! The next day we exchanged brief texts but since then nothing! For a couple of days I was upset until I realized that I was a one night stand and it was my fault but at the same time I had really enjoyed it. Live and learn!

Why would you be upset? You initiated it. Just because the sex was good for you and him doesn't mean he has any emotional connection with you. You could've just been a hooker as far as he was concerned...only you were free and legal. Just enjoy what you did and move on...I'm sure he already has. If you get approached by other men at the next charity event, then you know he told everyone about it.

[Anonymous]

Not since my early 20s, but man were those good times. And pretty easy to make happen as an attractive female living in the city

[Anonymous]

It's kind of gross at that age.

Why? I've never had a ONS because ti just isn't my thing, but why can't older people enjoy sex as much as younger people?

[Anonymous]

I had a few one night stands but they were the direct result of my problem drinking. With sober judgment, I would not have done it. Was alcohol a factor?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dang, I need to sign up for charity events.

Right!!

[Anonymous]

Please move this to explicit. Gross!