Feel awful - jealous of my brother.

[Anonymous]

I think this "jealousy" is healthy. It's your inner voice saying 'hey I deserve to be that happy too, why have I settled for less than that?' Time to shake things up! Luckily you are free to move about the cabin! Move, quit, go tour the world, go on sabbatical-you are untethered so go explore. Find your joy. Make your life the one you would be envious of. What is holding you back? Great job? Nope. Great partner/ Kid/dog/goldfish? Nope. Go seize the day!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think this "jealousy" is healthy. It's your inner voice saying 'hey I deserve to be that happy too, why have I settled for less than that?' Time to shake things up! Luckily you are free to move about the cabin! Move, quit, go tour the world, go on sabbatical-you are untethered so go explore. Find your joy. Make your life the one you would be envious of. What is holding you back? Great job? Nope. Great partner/ Kid/dog/goldfish? Nope. Go seize the day!

Those who wallow aren't exactly the types to pull themselves up by their bootstraps and help themselves. Don't be one of those, OP. Jealousy eats you from the inside out.