Husband never wants to visit his parents

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Anonymous wrote:Looks like you are the only one who cares about that particular relationship, so you will have to decide if it's worth the effort.

I agree. If this were important to either your DH or his parents, they would make more effort. You care more about it than anyone else does. You can't make someone care.

My problem is that I feel I've established a pattern. If I stop now, it will only look bad on me.

The kids are young, under 6. They enjoy the visits, sure, but grandparents are mostly hands off. They never rave about the visits or ask to visit.

Really? "It will look bad on me." Did you really just type that OP? Come on. Stop this nonsense and live your life. Stop trying to please everyone. If you choose to take the kids to the ILs, then do so without whining. And if you choose to grow a backbone, then enjoy your weekends. Your husband and ILs can figure this out. Stop enabling everyone. It's annoying.

And your judgment isn't annoying?

This is OP, and thank you. I need this!

Judgment? Nah, just some tough love for OP. She needs to stop worrying about everyone else.