Partner's mom choosing time with ex-DIL she doesn't like over me

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:To me it sounds like she's not doing it because she prefers the ex or because she has no boundaries. If I had to guess she's trying to be a good grandma and put the kids needs first by trying help them maintain a relationship with their mom. Even though MIL might prefer OP I bet the kids want to see their mom even if she isn't really highly involved. I bet they miss her and grandma is trying to help. I think it's admirable that she will put up with someone she doesn't enjoy for her grandkids.

Agreed. OP you need to out your feelings aside for the sake of the kids. C'mon, you know that, right?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are these two cities as close as DC to Baltimore, or are we talking you live in DC and he lives in NYC? How often do you see this dude?

Or are we talking like, Alexandria and Arlington.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are these two cities as close as DC to Baltimore, or are we talking you live in DC and he lives in NYC? How often do you see this dude?

Or are we talking like, Alexandria and Arlington.

OP here. We live 30 min apart, see each other frequently.