Do women discuss sex with their friends?

[Anonymous]

Yes

[Anonymous]

Yes.

And they all share every single detail to me.

Sometimes too much detail.

[Anonymous]

Only with my best friend but it's more of a lack of sex that we talk about. Can't wait for a divorce is to come through so we can see some new wang after 23 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I share my escapades with my AP with my BF.

hot!

[Anonymous]

AFAIK, DW does not talk about it with anyone. ANYONE. He libido is gone.

The most I will do is make a joke about lack of sex. Something like, "My wife was mad at me so she decided to withhold sex.....she broke my wrists."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We used to while we were all single and dating, or even in serious relationships. It completely stopped after marriage. The only time a friend has brought up sex since our group of friends all got married was in confidence - concerns around her DH not initiating, and she was seeking therapy to deal. We no longer discuss our sex lives in a funny, explicit, or cavalier manner the way we used to.

Same. I miss the openness.

[Anonymous]

I never did as a single. I had a limited circle of good female friends and the sex talk just -- wasn't.

As a married adult I have a bigger circle of female friends, and I find it lovely. But, no sex talk, really, at least not in specifics. One friend and I have talked about a few things (her lack of desire for her husband, for example) but not about the actual act or his penis or anything.

[Anonymous]

Hell yes. I'm very sexual and my close friends are, too. I love talking about sex!

[Anonymous]

Never. No woman I know does.

[Anonymous]

Only with one or two of my really closest friends with the right sense of humor/disposition.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I have one or two very close girlfriends with whom I discuss sex. But the majority of my friends? No.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So, when single and dating, what do women talk about specifically?

How big the guy is. What he likes. If I had multiples with him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hell yes. I'm very sexual and my close friends are, too. I love talking about sex!

UM. Being very sexual does't mean you have to talk about sex. I'm very sexual, but I'm not very chatty. One doesn't necessarily follow the other.

[Anonymous]

I know this thread didn't ask the guys but it seems like a fun topic. I don't since I'm married. It seems like it would be a breach of her trust and she's literally my best freind on the planet. We have a mutual female freind though that tells me about every new guy she dates (including the sex if I ask). Sometimes those stories are fun to hear. You don't reaize how many guys are duds out there until a female is willing to share her war stories. Lol.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I have one or two very close girlfriends with whom I discuss sex. But the majority of my friends? No.

Same here. Best friends. I talk to them about everything so it would be odd if for some reason I "exempted" sex.

And BTW, I would be fine if DH was the same (though I think tops there would only be one friend that he would ever raise the subject with). And actually, if they are also "friends of the marriage," I thinking far from detrimental to a marriage, having a sounding board can only be helpful...