How to handle being upset with someone who is in the same circle of friends

[Anonymous]

Another poster who says 'don't make friends with the neighbours'.

I get it's hard to move on, but you HAVE to. Agree with the others that the way forward is to be polite to them and aknowledge them, but that's it. And yes it will change the dynamic in your neighbourhood/among your friends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Another poster who says 'don't make friends with the neighbours'.

I get it's hard to move on, but you HAVE to. Agree with the others that the way forward is to be polite to them and aknowledge them, but that's it. And yes it will change the dynamic in your neighbourhood/among your friends.

+1
Too many people make the neighbor friend mistake. Wouldn't hurt to get another circle of friends either OUTSIDE the neighborhood!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Another poster who says 'don't make friends with the neighbours'.

I get it's hard to move on, but you HAVE to. Agree with the others that the way forward is to be polite to them and aknowledge them, but that's it. And yes it will change the dynamic in your neighbourhood/among your friends.

Ditto. Next door neighbors were our best friends until a queen bee moved in and sabotaged our relationship. After that it was too painful to endure. We moved.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Another poster who says 'don't make friends with the neighbours'.

I get it's hard to move on, but you HAVE to. Agree with the others that the way forward is to be polite to them and aknowledge them, but that's it. And yes it will change the dynamic in your neighbourhood/among your friends.

Ditto. Next door neighbors were our best friends until a queen bee moved in and sabotaged our relationship. After that it was too painful to endure. We moved.

You have serious issues if this is what caused you to move.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Come on, OP. What did the neighbors do to you?

You haven't given us enough information to allow us to give any advice which would really work.

[Anonymous]

Anyone have a link to this refuse to accept grocery order that keeps getting referenced??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Anyone have a link to this refuse to accept grocery order that keeps getting referenced??

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/647590.page

[Anonymous]

At first you said that they had done something really rude. That implied that you had not talked to them about it. Then you say that you had talked to them and they admitted that it was really rude. Our advice would depend upon what happened. I was in a similar situation years ago. Had it been one incident, I would have let it go. But it was an ongoing thing. I let my friends know that I had nothing against their inviting whomever they wanted. But if this person was going to be there, I couldn't come. But if this was just a single incident and they have acknowledged it, it must be pretty horrible. We need more info.