Does reading DCUM affect how you look at your relationship with your DH/DW?
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Anonymous
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Anonymous
This! The men here are mentally ill, whiny, and bitchy. I married well. |
Anonymous
| Makes me realize how many posters use therapists, counselors, and medication. If we ever have to storm the beaches of Normandy again, the snowflakes in this joint won't be any help. |
Anonymous
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DH here, had a long stretch of little to no sex after kids came. DCUM was helpful for a while, some good suggestions on coping mechanisms, knowing it's not just you. But DCUM can also reinforce negativity.
It's also makes me thankful that my SAHM DW actually does a lot with her day, compared to a lot of lazy SAH's described here. |
Anonymous
| Seeing all the nasty men on here makes me lose all sexual desire for my DH. |
Anonymous
| This place is basically turning into Reddit's Red Pill, except for women: Lots of unreasonably negative confirmation bias from women who seem poorly adjusted and miserable. |
Anonymous
| It's made me more conscious of how aggressively women court and accumulate slights, and how conditional their attachment to their husbands is. I'm much better prepared for things to go south with my wife then I would have been six months ago. Forewarned is forearmed. |
Anonymous
| Sometimes it makes me feel grateful. Other times, jealous. I would never describe my DH the way some people talk about their spouses. |
Anonymous
| Sometimes I read DCUM when I'm at a low point in my marriage to remind myself that it could always be worse. DH can be difficult to love sometimes, but I have no reason to think he's cheating, hiding things, or abusing (verbal/emotional/physical/whatever) me. |
Anonymous
| I hope no one is taking this tabloid forum seriously. |