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Found DH's old sex tape from 20 years ago. Trying to decide what to do
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Anonymous
| I feel like once you're married hints like old mementos are fair game. OP sounds like she has an axe to grind though. Seems like there's more going on than she's letting on because she's making A LOT of assumptions and being vindictive. Find a way to check what's on the tape just so it doesn't eat you up and then find a therapist to help you figure out why generally you are so angry at your husband. |
Anonymous
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I suspect a troll. OP cannot seriously be this dumb.
But just in case: you don't know it's a sex tape. If you don't have a VHS machine, then obviously he can't watch it either, and probably doesn't even know it's still around. Also, your reasoning for not wanting to get a divorce ("He makes a good living") is shallow. If you really "want to do something," get some therapy (and a job). |
Anonymous
| Troll |
Anonymous
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DH has 2 boxes of stuff that has gone from apt to apt before we met. And then they went from apt to apt to storage to our house now and DH hasn't gone through them. I can only imagine what may be in there haha.
The fact that you say this is almost like cheating is laughable. I'm sure you guys have a very happy marriage |
Anonymous
Nah, I don't think so. Just sounds like a shrill person who is probably in a miserable marriage and miserable place in life. |
Anonymous
| Doesn't everyone make a sex tape at some point? |
Anonymous
| This must be a troll, but I'll play along. It could be much worse than a sex tape. Could be a tribute video to their perfect love, possible vacation video, and he has it so he can still adore her and now she was his one true love! |
Anonymous
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to you, OP and your little band of supporters, have you kept any memorabilia from the time before you met your DH? Any keepsakes from old boyfriends? any journals or diaries in which you had penned your thoughts and feelings for your then-love? that's the same thing.
you sound completely f***ing nuts. |
Anonymous
I haven't. I'm as sexually adventures as it gets, and had my share of wild times before marriage, but have ALWAYS been super paranoid of leaving evidence with anyone else. I don't want that shit getting distributed. |
Anonymous
Just pointing out the obvious here: you're clearly not as adventurous as it gets. |
Anonymous
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1. he doesn't have a VHS player. 2. This is from 20 years ago. 3. Who cares if he kept it, since see 1. above! Really, OP, this is nothing. Especially if it turns out it's not a sex tape at all... (Maybe it's a secret wedding in Las Vegas! That wasn't annulled!) |
Anonymous
| He's not watching it. What's the big deal? |
Anonymous
Yep. This is crazytown level |
Anonymous
| I feel sorry for your husband |
Anonymous
| Your hella angry about a 20 year old tape that you don't even know what is on it. He could have taped an episode of friends over it for all you know. You must be a delight to live with |