My ex did something extremely dangerous and I'm fuming

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Anonymous wrote:As a dad with two kids, what a $%@#$%@#$%@#% dumb ass. I show my kids some tough love too sometimes, but I sure as hell do it in a way where I have eyes on them 100% of the time.

For those folks criticizing OP for leaving the husband, I totally understand....but....I already got somewhat heated reading her post and could you imagine being in her shoes at the time when it happened? Her blood must have been boiling and perhaps leaving him stranded there was already best she could do without getting abusive in front of the child.

EXACTLY!!!

He insisted he was right, would not back down. So I had to walk away so I don't kill him.

You truly sound unhinged. Kill him? Who's the better influence now?

You always talk in literal terms?

By all means attack me. I don't care. But I'm not the one that put a 7 year old in danger.

Welk actually, you did. You say your ex "has a history of acting like a complete moron", yet you continue to put him in charge of your son when you are there? That's your fault. And he's pouting because you left him stranded (the same thing you claim he did to your son.) Your son wondersmwhat the hell is going on because you left his damn dad behind! You know he is fine, but your 7 yo only knows dad was left without a way home.

Stop planning outings with your ex if he is so awful.

Because it would have been better if I just let him go with his father alone? Half of the time I go because I know he is incapble of taking care of our son by himself. It would have better if his father let him stew in the bathroom until someone called the police? You really are a special kind of stupid.

And also, his father is an adult perfectly capable of finding his way home. A seven year old is not. Why you keep comparing the same is beyond me.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:As a dad with two kids, what a $%@#$%@#$%@#% dumb ass. I show my kids some tough love too sometimes, but I sure as hell do it in a way where I have eyes on them 100% of the time.

For those folks criticizing OP for leaving the husband, I totally understand....but....I already got somewhat heated reading her post and could you imagine being in her shoes at the time when it happened? Her blood must have been boiling and perhaps leaving him stranded there was already best she could do without getting abusive in front of the child.

EXACTLY!!!

He insisted he was right, would not back down. So I had to walk away so I don't kill him.

You truly sound unhinged. Kill him? Who's the better influence now?

You always talk in literal terms?

By all means attack me. I don't care. But I'm not the one that put a 7 year old in danger.

Welk actually, you did. You say your ex "has a history of acting like a complete moron", yet you continue to put him in charge of your son when you are there? That's your fault. And he's pouting because you left him stranded (the same thing you claim he did to your son.) Your son wondersmwhat the hell is going on because you left his damn dad behind! You know he is fine, but your 7 yo only knows dad was left without a way home.

Stop planning outings with your ex if he is so awful.

Because it would have been better if I just let him go with his father alone? Half of the time I go because I know he is incapble of taking care of our son by himself. It would have better if his father let him stew in the bathroom until someone called the police? You really are a special kind of stupid.

And also, his father is an adult perfectly capable of finding his way home. A seven year old is not. Why you keep comparing the same is beyond me.

Are you really that stupid? Why the hell didn't you take him to the bathroom if your husband had a habit of poor decision making? You're a special kindd of stupid!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:As a dad with two kids, what a $%@#$%@#$%@#% dumb ass. I show my kids some tough love too sometimes, but I sure as hell do it in a way where I have eyes on them 100% of the time.

For those folks criticizing OP for leaving the husband, I totally understand....but....I already got somewhat heated reading her post and could you imagine being in her shoes at the time when it happened? Her blood must have been boiling and perhaps leaving him stranded there was already best she could do without getting abusive in front of the child.

EXACTLY!!!

He insisted he was right, would not back down. So I had to walk away so I don't kill him.

You truly sound unhinged. Kill him? Who's the better influence now?

You always talk in literal terms?

By all means attack me. I don't care. But I'm not the one that put a 7 year old in danger.

Welk actually, you did. You say your ex "has a history of acting like a complete moron", yet you continue to put him in charge of your son when you are there? That's your fault. And he's pouting because you left him stranded (the same thing you claim he did to your son.) Your son wondersmwhat the hell is going on because you left his damn dad behind! You know he is fine, but your 7 yo only knows dad was left without a way home.

Stop planning outings with your ex if he is so awful.

Because it would have been better if I just let him go with his father alone? Half of the time I go because I know he is incapble of taking care of our son by himself. It would have better if his father let him stew in the bathroom until someone called the police? You really are a special kind of stupid.

And also, his father is an adult perfectly capable of finding his way home. A seven year old is not. Why you keep comparing the same is beyond me.

Are you really that stupid? Why the hell didn't you take him to the bathroom if your husband had a habit of poor decision making? You're a special kindd of stupid!

Because he keeps surprising me with stupid shit he comes up with. What point are you trying to prove? That my ex gets a pass because he has a history of acting stupid? I should not let my son see his father (even though the law requires me to)? What the hell are you attacking me for? Just go away.

[Anonymous]

People who pass on vitriolic attacks to someone who already has to deal with an abusive ex are a special category of @$$holes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People who pass on vitriolic attacks to someone who already has to deal with an abusive ex are a special category of @$$holes.

Thanks you. I appreciate that.

Since this happened he has seen our son two times and both times our son called him to ask if he could see him. Yesterday was my son's birthday and his father ignored it completely.

[Anonymous]

You were both immature. But what your dh was far worse. I think that the PPs that think what he did was ok didn't read the part about the bathroom being across the street from the store. At age 7, a parent she wait in the bathroom with your kid, or just outside the door if it's safe in there.

[Anonymous]

OP here.

An update on the situation partly for the people who criticized me and partly because I can't believe a grown man can act like this.

Since the incident i originally posted about, ex saw our son twice, both times our son called and requested to see him. Then he started blocking my number and not answering the phone when our son calls. It's been three weeks with not as much as a phone call to check on our child.

How long can I keep lying to our son that daddy is busy or working? Luckily he was mostly unpredictable with his visits before so it's not like our son is actively missing him YET. But soon he will figure out that dad is not coming around and start asking me the hard questions. who the F acts like this?? He is not right in the head.