I am so angry at my husband's inability to perform

[Anonymous]

Wow 10:15 get some help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow 10:15 get some help.

Big time.

[Anonymous]

OP here - I was reading all the post and I feel I need to defend myself. I always tried to make the Timed Intercourse as normal as possible. I went out of my way to dress sexy and was willing to do anything. I never sat there and said I want a baby so let's do this now. However, the fact was it was timed intercourse. A fact that I could not change. I did the best I could under the circumstances we had. My husband travels so I had to tell hime when the particular dates were so he could be home. However, during those dates I rented porn, was extra wild etc. However, at the end of the day. I can only do so much. My husband said it was worse because I actually went out of my way to act like everything was normal when in fact it was timed intercourse. The fact is I couldn't win. I know this is not easy for any guy and I am certainly not saying it is all his fault but I resent a few of these post that seem to suggest it is all mine.

[Anonymous]

I haven't read all of the PP, so sorry if this was already covered... We also had trouble with DH not being able to perform when necessary. It is very upsetting considering everything that you're going through. I'm sure that your husband feels pretty bad about it too. What I ended up doing was lying to him about the "right time". For example, if we needed to have sex that night, I would tell him that I was monitoring the situation and that we needed to have sex in three days. With the pressure off, he was usually happy to have sex (and able to). I would later tell him that I lied and that we had already passed the time, and he was usually grateful that I had kept the truth from him because he was able to view sex as the enjoyable activiity that it once was, rather than being consumed by the pressure to perform.

[Anonymous]

talk to him about his fantasies....or, about yours!

play that porn!!