Men- do you feel pressure to maintain your looks for your wife?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What man over 25 with a non-pro athlete job has "abs"?

49 yo executive with abs right here

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What man over 25 with a non-pro athlete job has "abs"?

49 yo executive with abs right here

Hot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What man over 25 with a non-pro athlete job has "abs"?

52 with a desk job, I have abs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What man over 25 with a non-pro athlete job has "abs"?

Im the PP who said his wife said she isn't visual and told me to put my shirt back on. Im 47, not a pro athlete.

[Anonymous]

Troll post men are for providing women are for looks

[Anonymous]

I do not feel any pressure to "maintain" my looks. Pretty much her only concern in that arena is that she wants me to take care of myself so that I don't die and leave her alone with the kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What man over 25 with a non-pro athlete job has "abs"?

52 with a desk job, I have abs.

38 year old with desk job....I have abs.

[MikeL]

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Anonymous wrote:DH has already told me my stomach is gross looking since I had twins. It won't look good again without a tummy tuck. I had been trying to lose baby weight and get back to my old size for him, then I realized he's going to think I'm unattractive pretty much no matter what I do, short of surgery. So now I do it for me. Doing it for him only leads to disappointment.

Your DH is an ahole. Dump him.

I agree.
That's an asshole thing to say.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What man over 25 with a non-pro athlete job has "abs"?

52 with a desk job, I have abs.

38 year old with desk job....I have abs.

Hot hot hot to all.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Yes and no. I work out because I like to feel strong, I like to be healthy, and I like to be fit enough to enjoy various sports and recreational activities. But I am well aware that women are not attracted to fat guys, and are more attracted to guys with visible muscles than guys with none.

So, it's mostly for me, but it's for her too.

Sounds like what a lot of the wives said. So apparently EVERYONE is working out only for themselves and not for their partner?

I have gained about 20 pounds since our wedding but H has gained at least 40, so I am working out for myself and whoever my future partner is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I do it for myself. I enjoy working out 6 days a week before anyone wakes up in the morning it helps get my day going.
I would do it for DW, but she says women are not turned on visually, the opposite of what I read everywhere, and that it doesn't matter to her.
So I keep my abs covered up with a shirt. I came out of the workout room before with my shirt off wiping the sweat off me and she asked why I had my shirt off

Come work out at my house

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What man over 25 with a non-pro athlete job has "abs"?

49 yo executive with abs right here

Hot.

Double hot

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes and no. I work out because I like to feel strong, I like to be healthy, and I like to be fit enough to enjoy various sports and recreational activities. But I am well aware that women are not attracted to fat guys, and are more attracted to guys with visible muscles than guys with none.

So, it's mostly for me, but it's for her too.

Sounds like what a lot of the wives said. So apparently EVERYONE is working out only for themselves and not for their partner?

I have gained about 20 pounds since our wedding but H has gained at least 40, so I am working out for myself and whoever my future partner is.

Spoken like a true DCUM'er

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes and no. I work out because I like to feel strong, I like to be healthy, and I like to be fit enough to enjoy various sports and recreational activities. But I am well aware that women are not attracted to fat guys, and are more attracted to guys with visible muscles than guys with none.

So, it's mostly for me, but it's for her too.

Sounds like what a lot of the wives said. So apparently EVERYONE is working out only for themselves and not for their partner?

I have gained about 20 pounds since our wedding but H has gained at least 40, so I am working out for myself and whoever my future partner is.

Love it!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I do it for myself. I enjoy working out 6 days a week before anyone wakes up in the morning it helps get my day going.
I would do it for DW, but she says women are not turned on visually, the opposite of what I read everywhere, and that it doesn't matter to her.
So I keep my abs covered up with a shirt. I came out of the workout room before with my shirt off wiping the sweat off me and she asked why I had my shirt off

Come work out at my house

I have to warn you I'm high drive