Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This happened to me. It was totally crazy. I was in a LDR while I was away at law school. I talked to my "boyfriend" all the time--texting and calling every day, at various hours of the day. He was never unavailable! Then he told me one day that his ex was pregnant but that it happened before we got together. So I kept talking to him. One of my friends was like, "I just don't feel like there's a baby" after he had told me she had it. Well, then the baby mama emailed me and told me everything and it turns out they'd never really broken up and he lied about when she got pregnant so there WAS a baby, it just came later than he said. I felt like such an idiot. I couldn't believe it. He had to have been on the phone ALL day long. He came to visit me several states away. We hung out when I would come home, even on holidays. I really can't point to anything that was suspicious. I'd note that this was before the days of Facebook and even MySpace so I couldn't do any social media sleuthing. My takeaway is that you just have to trust people and what happens, happens.
You should have replied, "Oh how wonderful! I had his baby, too!"
Then totally cut all communication with both of them and leave them slowly, slowly twisting in the wind...
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