Drama when I have to work on weekends

[Anonymous]

Op I'll be less hard on you because I have a slightly similar problem. My job (equal earners) has always taken a back seat to his. Until now. I'm ramping up, enjoying my work, and taking more responsibility. That means he has to step up. You really have to be direct and tell him what you need. Pps are 100% right that you have to leave the house. Just go. He'll screw it up until he learns the lessons you've already learned. I was out all morning this weekend and when I got home, my kids weren't dressed or brushed up and my dh hadn't even showered and looked exhausted. Bummer. He didn't come to brunch with us because he wasn't ready. Now maybe he understands why I get the kids dressed and to the playground by 9:00 on weekends. He just thought I was uptight.