Late 40s/Early 50s Divorced Ladies

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think it is nice that there is a lot of wishful thinking here. But as a man I can tell you that while a much younger man of course would want to have sex with you if you keep yourself fit, he generally won't be totally into you. No 38 yo guy will be proud to escort around a 45 yo divorced mother on a regular basis. I had this at 33 with a never married 40 yo. I just couldn't go through with it. I'll allow there are outliers, but generally I think what I say is the truth.

Yeah, cause we NEVER see examples in Hollywood of older women/younger men.

Those are situations where people have millions. I have very infrequently ever heard of a man asking a woman for a number while she is with another guy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yeah, don't believe the boards. If you take care of yourself and look good and hold yourself with confidence, and who can't do that at 50, the guys in their 30's start to take notice. Wild thing is once you tell them how old you are, they don't care.

Sure, they'll bang you for a while, but forget commitment. You'll get dumped as soon as they find someone younger.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The key is to be a fun, friendly interesting person. Confidence is sexy and is easier for us older ladies who no longer care so much what others think of us.

Anonymous wrote:Always remember, ladies, that you have exponential knowledge, and sexual confidence, that you didn't have in your 20's. Personally, give me the woman with the confidence and the less than societally idealized appearance, than the much younger inexperienced bubblehead.

Nobody gives a damn about your "confidence". What you don't have is a 20-year old body. THAT is what men want.

"unconfident" 25 >>> "confident" 55

Sorry if truth hurts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think it is nice that there is a lot of wishful thinking here. But as a man I can tell you that while a much younger man of course would want to have sex with you if you keep yourself fit, he generally won't be totally into you. No 38 yo guy will be proud to escort around a 45 yo divorced mother on a regular basis. I had this at 33 with a never married 40 yo. I just couldn't go through with it. I'll allow there are outliers, but generally I think what I say is the truth.

Yeah, cause we NEVER see examples in Hollywood of older women/younger men.

LMAO is the average "older woman" a rich movie star? NOPE. Therefore the "Hollywood example" is hilariously irrelevant.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The key is to be a fun, friendly interesting person. Confidence is sexy and is easier for us older ladies who no longer care so much what others think of us.

Anonymous wrote:Always remember, ladies, that you have exponential knowledge, and sexual confidence, that you didn't have in your 20's. Personally, give me the woman with the confidence and the less than societally idealized appearance, than the much younger inexperienced bubblehead.

Nobody gives a damn about your "confidence". What you don't have is a 20-year old body. THAT is what men want.

"unconfident" 25 >>> "confident" 55

Sorry if truth hurts.

No decent human being wants to be with a person who's going out of their way to tell middle aged women they shouldn't feel confident.

Sorry if truth hurts.

[Anonymous]

Oh, angry single guy is back to piss all over older women.

Dude, work on your relationship with your mother. It might help with the anger.

[Anonymous]

Wouldn't it be nice if both genders faced up to facts, and acknowledged that we all get middle aged, and older? All relationships are hard. It's a miracle when two people stop finding fault with each other, and find the good. Neither sex has a monopoly on unfortunate conduct.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think it is nice that there is a lot of wishful thinking here. But as a man I can tell you that while a much younger man of course would want to have sex with you if you keep yourself fit, he generally won't be totally into you. No 38 yo guy will be proud to escort around a 45 yo divorced mother on a regular basis. I had this at 33 with a never married 40 yo. I just couldn't go through with it. I'll allow there are outliers, but generally I think what I say is the truth.

Yeah, cause we NEVER see examples in Hollywood of older women/younger men.

Those are situations where people have millions. I have very infrequently ever heard of a man asking a woman for a number while she is with another guy.

That last bit made me LOL. Men ask for women's numbers under ALL circumstances (one asked me out when I was 9 mos PG), but, yes, in front of the men they are with. Most common bar fight scenario in my hometown.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yeah, don't believe the boards. If you take care of yourself and look good and hold yourself with confidence, and who can't do that at 50, the guys in their 30's start to take notice. Wild thing is once you tell them how old you are, they don't care.

Sure, they'll bang you for a while, but forget commitment. You'll get dumped as soon as they find someone younger.

Who says women in their 50s want commitment from men in their 30s? Most likely she wants a good time in bed with a guy who can go two rounds in a single night w/o Viagra. You wouldn't know about that because of your premature ejaculation issue.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The key is to be a fun, friendly interesting person. Confidence is sexy and is easier for us older ladies who no longer care so much what others think of us.

Anonymous wrote:Always remember, ladies, that you have exponential knowledge, and sexual confidence, that you didn't have in your 20's. Personally, give me the woman with the confidence and the less than societally idealized appearance, than the much younger inexperienced bubblehead.

Nobody gives a damn about your "confidence". What you don't have is a 20-year old body. THAT is what men want.

"unconfident" 25 >>> "confident" 55

Sorry if truth hurts.

No decent human being wants to be with a person who's going out of their way to tell middle aged women they shouldn't feel confident.

Sorry if truth hurts.

Go ahead and feel confident if you want. Just don't delude yourself that it's important to men at all.

Sorry if truth hurts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yeah, don't believe the boards. If you take care of yourself and look good and hold yourself with confidence, and who can't do that at 50, the guys in their 30's start to take notice. Wild thing is once you tell them how old you are, they don't care.

Sure, they'll bang you for a while, but forget commitment. You'll get dumped as soon as they find someone younger.

Who says women in their 50s want commitment from men in their 30s? Most likely she wants a good time in bed with a guy who can go two rounds in a single night w/o Viagra. You wouldn't know about that because of your premature ejaculation issue.

This! Men in their 20s are generally way too immature to spend more than a few nights with--if I were even into one night stands.

[Anonymous]

There's something unnatural about old women with young men. I think it's that young women are often more mature than young men so the young women fit with older men better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yeah, don't believe the boards. If you take care of yourself and look good and hold yourself with confidence, and who can't do that at 50, the guys in their 30's start to take notice. Wild thing is once you tell them how old you are, they don't care.

Sure, they'll bang you for a while, but forget commitment. You'll get dumped as soon as they find someone younger.

Who says women in their 50s want commitment from men in their 30s? Most likely she wants a good time in bed with a guy who can go two rounds in a single night w/o Viagra. You wouldn't know about that because of your premature ejaculation issue.

This! Men in their 20s are generally way too immature to spend more than a few nights with--if I were even into one night stands.

Actually, I find the immaturity of younger guys is part of their appeal. Well, not immaturity but just the way they don't worry about things so much. Being with younger men makes me feel young again, it makes me remember what I was like at that age, happy and carefree. And the multiple rounds thing blows my mind!

To the guy who dated the 40yo never married, I think the key there is never married. For me my confidence with guys comes from having been married and had kids. I don't need a man anymore to give me those things. These days I want men, mainly for sex. So if one guys not interested it's not such a blow to my ego because I know there's another one around the corner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wouldn't it be nice if both genders faced up to facts, and acknowledged that we all get middle aged, and older? All relationships are hard. It's a miracle when two people stop finding fault with each other, and find the good. Neither sex has a monopoly on unfortunate conduct.

Ding ding ding. We have an intelligent poster on here!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think it is nice that there is a lot of wishful thinking here. But as a man I can tell you that while a much younger man of course would want to have sex with you if you keep yourself fit, he generally won't be totally into you. No 38 yo guy will be proud to escort around a 45 yo divorced mother on a regular basis. I had this at 33 with a never married 40 yo. I just couldn't go through with it. I'll allow there are outliers, but generally I think what I say is the truth.

Yeah, cause we NEVER see examples in Hollywood of older women/younger men.

Those are situations where people have millions. I have very infrequently ever heard of a man asking a woman for a number while she is with another guy.

That last bit made me LOL. Men ask for women's numbers under ALL circumstances (one asked me out when I was 9 mos PG), but, yes, in front of the men they are with. Most common bar fight scenario in my hometown.

I mean outside of a bar scenario where people are drunk.