My neighbor is dating a 22 years old and his 41. his kids are 12 and 8

[Anonymous]

There's a biblical rule, I think, about half your age plus seven years. Unlike many biblical rules, it seems to work well in practice. If she was 28, I'd think fine. 22 does seem too young. My husband would be thrilled though!

[Anonymous]

Not odd. They are adults. I'm a woman with female friends who were adults when I was born and we have a lot in common and like spending time together. I figure it's a similar situation for these two (with the addition of physical attraction).Would you are if his best friend was years younger? MYOB

[Anonymous]

OP, please, proofread.

[Anonymous]

Somebody sounds jealous!

[Anonymous]

Yes, odd. Not uncommon but odd. And if dad keeps dating very young women, I wonder how the 12-year-old will feel about it in a few years.

[Anonymous]

Gross and sad.

[Anonymous]

Eh. It's not something I would do, but it is his life and doesn't affect you. Hopefully it will work out for them.

[Anonymous]

Sorry to say this OP, but leave it alone. It's not your relationship. It only affects you if your child is concern. And if your DH is watching the neighbor with envy. Or should I say eyeing her instead.

Is it weird? Not really and I'm not even the type who likes to see big gaps. The only person that should be concern is the mother of those kids (if she's still around).

[Anonymous]

None of your business.

Shut your mouth and don't gossip about this with the neighbors. Be a better person than that.

And especially don't talk about it with (or in front of) your DS. I'm sure he doesn't care one bit about his friend's father's romantic life. That's at best boring (and more likely disgusting) to a 12 year old. Don't burden your DS with this crap.

Be a good person. Stop judging your neighbor.

[Anonymous]

gross but MYOB

[Anonymous]

Last summer we rented a home which had an incredibly hot single dad living next door. He must have been early-mid 40s. I wouldn't have been surprised if his girlfriends were in their 20s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I know is not my business. But my neighbor is 42 years olds and he dating someone who might be 22 years old. My DS is friends with his DD who is 12 years old. Do you think is werid to date someone who was born when you're were and adult? His DD says she nice and funny. Do you think is strange to date someone so much older and or younger than you?

Who MIGHT be 22? You're wasting energy on something that isn't your business and even if you think it would be if true, you don't even know the lady's age...

I told my Ds to ask her how old daddy boyfriend is. The girl said she 22 years old. So she might be younger or older. But according to the girl she's 22

You told your son to ask? Something is wrong with you OP.

[Anonymous]

I think the neighbor should avoid sending his kids to YOUR house. You sound nosy and cray cray.

[Anonymous]

How is this any of your concern?
If he were dating a 12 year old, then yes, you should be worried.
But dating someone of legal age is his business, not yours.
You are certainly free to judge him inside your own head, but gossip is never attractive, so keep it to yourself.

[Anonymous]

are you always look out the window?