Anonymous wrote:I can't imagine why she told you this, when it can do nothing but hurt. She really never should have said this. But given that she did, the answer is to take her out of her day to day environment -- maybe to a lovely resort for a long weekend -- to wine and dine her and remind her why she fell in love with you and not with the rakish jerks she may find more attractive but nonetheless did not choose to marry. Attraction is much more psychological for women. Maybe she needs a reminder of why she fell in love long before all the children and obligations and stress.
Someone doesn't have to be a rakish jerk to be more attractive than the OP. I thought my first husband was unattractive. My fiancé is a much nicer man and I am wildly attracted to him.
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