Child is social and teachers are unconcerned. This child is not like your child. |
| Op, coming from a parent who started getting weekly to monthly calls about my "different" DS starting at 18 months of age (he is now 5). Please back off. You are obsessing. What are you afraid of here? Let your kid be a kid. All kids are different and all kids have some sort of challenges. If his teachers are not concerned, and he already went to KKI, and you have no diagnosis, and your child is happy and developing, just STOP. And get yourself into therapy. What you are doing is supremely unhealthy and you are robbing yourself and your family of enjoying each other for who you all are. |
I do! Mine has language delays! Thanks, though. I merely said - many kids repeat lines from shows. Both my kids do, one is advanced, one delayed. Neither of my kids would have responded to such a broad question. |
My child with ASD/ADHD passed the playdate and was accepted at one of the private schools that is obsessed about on the private school forum when he was 3 yrs old... so it depends on symptoms and age. This child is not like my child. My child never had sleep issues and was obsessed with elevators not cars at that age. So yeah, I agree with you, every child is different. |
But it was the teachers, was it not, who expressed concern about your child, who was fine at home but not at school? And who every clinician who saw him said classic Asperger's? Unlike your child, this child doesn't seem to have anything to fix. What would he get therapy for, exactly? |
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If you want to read a book about regressive autism, read Craig Schultze's book When Snow Turns To Rain. I think it is a pretty good description of what it looks like (which does NOT) sound like what you described.
He is a local parent. I think the book can still be found on Amazon. Beautifully written but Warning: not a happy ending. |
We decided to go to a immersion language charter (100% Mandarin ) for preK4 for DS with ADHD/ASD not the private school. Funny looking back on it now... Behavior that is considered "normal" at 3 can be problematic at 4. Dr. Shapiro called DS "classic Asperger's" - but I (and DS's psychiatrist now) disagree at this point, most of DS's issues including his social issues comes from the ADHD not ASD but DS has had a lot of interventions since he was diagnosed including Speech, OT, social skills (you need more than parallel play after 3), etc. DS's symptoms for are very mild. He is medicated for the ADHD and appears NT. His eye contact has always been normal.
OP's son can just as easily have ADHD for all we know. Anyway, ADOS/ADI-R is the gold standard for diagnosing or ruling out ASDs. and should be covered by insurance and OP can get an answer one way or another and move on from there. |
You are putting way too much faith in the ADOS. Do some research. |
| ^ it's the best diagnostic tool for diagnosing ASD that exists currently according to the Yale Child Study Center, Children's National, etc. If you can think of a better one, please inform us. |
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Op does even know what regressive ASD looks like. Her child was evaluated 8 month ago.
See a neurologist if you must for the spacing out. I would forget about autism. |
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Actually, in the absence of any medical test, the best "tool" is an experienced evaluator. |
Neurologist?!? You don't even know what kind of doctor to see. You see a neurologist for neurological issues like CP not developmental issues like autism. |
YOU WERE not following the conversation. The OP is worried that her child sometimes is not responsive and acting wierd. So it was suggested that she check him out for seizures. |
NP here. You see a neurologist for neurological issues like absence seizures, which my daughter has. It looks like she's spacing out and doesn't respond to her name. Yes, neurologist. No need to be nasty. |