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What do his daycare teachers think? None of what you describe really sounds alarming to me, but I know that trying to describe nuances of behaviors in young kids is tough. I'd be interested in whether the daycare teachers were seeing patterns that troubled them or not.
What are the issues with sleep? |
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DS' daycare teachers have no concerns. They handle his difficulty transitioning between activities quite well. WRT to his sleep issues, here's the original thread I posted: http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/524730.page |
| My child has autism and what you describe does not sound to me to be of great alarm for autism. |
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Actually the way he is playing is very unlikely that he has autism. He is actually playing quite creatively.
I would get him checked for seizure. But I would get yourself to see a therapist. Your obsession with ASD is unhealthy. There is really not going on with your DS that suggests ASD and you just got him evaluated thoroughly 8 month ago. |
| I meant nothing going on with him. |
Not OP, but what kind of doctor do you see for possible seizures. Where do you recommend going? |
Interesting that no one else agrees with you. But here you are, suggesting ASD, as you do for 90 percent of children with any issues. |
I gave my opinion and recommendation. Did not realize OP was taking a poll for a diagnosis by describing her son's symptoms on the Internet from people who never met her son. |
This is just so vague. What 4 year old is not obsessive about their favorite thing at that moment??????? |
She just had an evaluation 8 months ago. Most 3 year olds have similar tendancies -- they aren't autism related. Not even the teachers are concerned! |
Well, DS was diagnosed with Asperger's by actual doctors at Children's so while I am not going to post the report of their findings, you can rest assured that they did a through evaluation. Dr Shapiro and the psych Ed eval agreed about the Asperger's at 4. Also, the diagnosis was confirmed by Dr Black with a neuropsych when DS was 7. |
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Most of this sounds like my 3yo, who we have no concerns about whatsoever. He's very social. The only difference is that my son is very good at pretend play with his stuffed animals and action figures and he's not obsessed with cars, but it sounds like your son is doing more pretending than you give him credit for and I don't think having a favorite thing is that alarming, either. My son has also always been verbally advanced and he loves to quote his favorite movies! And my older son, who is seven and also NT, prefers not to answer "what did you do today?" He always tells us "nothing."
I don't want to discount your intuition, but hopefully ease your mind a little. |
OP has had an evaluation. Child is social and teachers aren't concerned. But parents like you always have to try to worry them, right? |
But OP is still concerned. So I recommend ADOS/ADI-R which by the time she gets the appointment, it will be longer than 8 months. Also, the avg age for diagnosing Asperger's is 7. Most don't get catch early but early intervention is best. |
Most 3-4 year olds can say something that they did at school that day. If they don't remember, they'll make it up. An inability to say one thing that happened at school is absolutely a warning sign for a language disorder. Here is a helpful milestone chart that shows you what a 3-4 year old should do: http://www.asha.org/public/speech/development/34/ Excessive repetition of phrases from TV shows is also a symptom of a language disorder and/or ASD. http://lessonplans.blogs.nytimes.com/2008/10/15/it-bears-repeating/?_r=0 Do you have a kid with a SN? If you don't, please get off the forum. You don't know what you're talking about and you aren't helpful. |