Early redflags

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm sorry some of you married such assholes.

Asshole dropped dead at age 40. It's been HEAVEN without him.

[Anonymous]

1. First date - was sarcastic and critical on our first date. He was rude/impolite to the waittress. When I spilled a drink, he made fun of me instead of offering a napkin like any normal person would.
2. 3 weeks into dating - sent me a vitriolic email with the intent to hurt me as deeply as he knew how. Simply because the night before, I told him I just wanted to take things slow at first.

[Anonymous]

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/518571.page

another thread about what makes a guy "husband material"--if your guy doesn't fit this then that is a red flag. Trust your instincts. I am amazed at the number of women who are married to total pricks and play dumb "he wasn't that way at ALL until we got married" yes he was, you just didn't want to see it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1. First date - was sarcastic and critical on our first date. He was rude/impolite to the waittress. When I spilled a drink, he made fun of me instead of offering a napkin like any normal person would.
2. 3 weeks into dating - sent me a vitriolic email with the intent to hurt me as deeply as he knew how. Simply because the night before, I told him I just wanted to take things slow at first.

You didn't end up marrying him did you?

[Anonymous]

came on way too strong in the beginning. I now know it wasn't "real". it was his issues. unfortunately he pulled me in emotional and then dumped me. at least he's gone now

[Anonymous]

Foot massages. He was always giving me damned foot massages.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm sorry some of you married such assholes.

Asshole dropped dead at age 40. It's been HEAVEN without him.

I've been praying for this ....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Foot massages. He was always giving me damned foot massages.

what's up with this one? it's good right?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Foot massages. He was always giving me damned foot massages.

Ugh, I dated one of those. He had a major foot fetish. In the beginning, he pretended to enjoy having sex with all of me and foot play was just a part of it. Very quickly it became apparent that I could have been watching TV while he slobbered all over my feet. At times, I just wanted to detach my feet and go into the other room (and he wouldn't have noticed that I was gone, as long as my feet were there).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:1. First date - was sarcastic and critical on our first date. He was rude/impolite to the waittress. When I spilled a drink, he made fun of me instead of offering a napkin like any normal person would.
2. 3 weeks into dating - sent me a vitriolic email with the intent to hurt me as deeply as he knew how. Simply because the night before, I told him I just wanted to take things slow at first.

You didn't end up marrying him did you?

I did.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When he stayed out past 10:30 at his company Christmas party.

[Anonymous]

Supports Trump.

[Anonymous]

This list actually makes you ladies look worse than the men you were with. You lot have really shitty judgement.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm sorry some of you married such assholes.

Asshole dropped dead at age 40. It's been HEAVEN without him.

Of what?
Sorry to be nosy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:1. First date - was sarcastic and critical on our first date. He was rude/impolite to the waittress. When I spilled a drink, he made fun of me instead of offering a napkin like any normal person would.
2. 3 weeks into dating - sent me a vitriolic email with the intent to hurt me as deeply as he knew how. Simply because the night before, I told him I just wanted to take things slow at first.

You didn't end up marrying him did you?

I did.