Why would it be sarcasm? |
Well, I sure hope "fixing the students" doesn't mean artificially plunking in a bunch of higher achieving kids, so it "looks" like the fewer kids are problems even though it's the same number. Or is the plan to have the well-behaved kids model correct behavior in the hopes the others will pick it up? Because that's not my kid's job. |
I agree. I was more just commenting on the idea that we can "fix" schools. Unless we can fix families and upbringings, we cannot fix schools. |
the PP here you responded to. I agree with just about everything you said although I weight peer pressure more then I suspect you do. That said my entire stance is based on trend analysis and probability. There will be great kids coming out of bad schools and bad kids coming out of great schools. The percentages and the ceilings and cellars for the corresponding aptitude being the difference. A somewhat dimwit minimal effort kind of kid with low maturity at the Potomac school ends up partying out of state school and getting a job with their parents or connections basically by default. That same kid at Dunbar ends up in jail almost be default, it comes down to which you want your kid hanging out with considering most kids trend towards avg and like to hangout with similar kids. I would be terrifyied putting an avg kid in a bad school there is simply not enough other avg kids being pushed through for them to align with. |
| Oh and for the record every current justice is Ivy Educated |
Mere fact of integration is not what brings the benefit, it's the SES mix and ratio that drives outcomes. This is the empirical data that poster after poster has pointed to again and again. There needs to be a critical mass of high achieving students in order for that "lifting of all boats" to happen. The hypothesis is confirmed again. |
Hmm. No, I think we are probably more aligned (at least as far as peer pressure goes) than you think. It just rankles me, that's all. |
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There are no schools where the majority of the kids "don't care." Although, I'm also sure that the kids in Potomac who had the bright idea to speed faster than traffic cameras were geniuses who loved school. With bright futures. Cruelly cut short, by that horrible, mean car they were speeding in.
You are probably a person who would bristle at blaming a rape victim, because probably at Duke or Wellesley, you were told that was wrong. But you have no issue blaming a bunch of minor children for their circumstance. You are a disgusting piece of garbage. |
In DC there is not enough of that well described mixture of students. A few rich kids will do the best publics and charters , the rest will peel off for private..same with middle class (I'm talking all races for both categories). You just don't have enough of those families interested in the public or public charter option to sprinkle through all the schools in D C.From my experience, those families often demand or create/contribute varied offerings and high educational expectations. You can't do one without the other.. As DC becomes.more middle class schools have reached tipping points where these families jump in, but they are loathe to be the first unless they are founding a charter. Its gradual, and it can't be forced. Its based on both offerings and seeing a base of other middle class/upper class students in attendance. |
| I want my kids going to school in an integrated environment where kids more or less want to learn, obey the rules and participate in activities. I have no interest in a school where studying and class participation are derided as "acting white" and where the social pathologies of the street are brought into the school |
How do you judge if that's actually the culture in the school? |
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Hey, go easy on Wellesley, please. Most of those women scraped and struggled to get there. You don't get to be indignant about what you perceive as a slight against minorities or those in poverty by assuming everyone else is an elitist snoot. Up the thread (or maybe it was the other screaming match about whites in schools), someone mentioned all the Supreme Court justices who came from immigrant and humble beginnings. You going to take a swipe at them, too? Sotomayor went to Princeton. What does that make her?
If you want people to respect your point of view, then act like a mature adult. Oh, wait, this is DCUM, where people spit at each other when they don't agree. God forbid we have an intelligent conversation. |
I believe in rainbows and smiles too, I just consider them irrelevant to strategic planning. At the end of the day I am a pragmatic actualist who believes that intent and greater good are fine variables but shouldn't interfere with actual results. At the end of the day arguments about fair, balance and equitable distribution are really only distractions from natural order where none of those apply. Life is only as fair as you can make it, diverse is only relevant against the commonality and most people will end up only a few degrees plus or minus socially from where the start and or where placed. If your butter cup is special or lucky they will rise, if they are marginal or unlucky they will fall but most of everyone reading this kids will stay lock step in line with their environment that fostered them. Degrading ones environment for the sake of commute or urban idealism seems short sighted to me. The sad thing is most people actually agree with me and wouldn't put their kids in a really bad place like suitland high school but then they kid them selves about the shades of grey inbetween as a coping mechanism to rationalize/justify sending their kids to where they compromised when they bought. Who doesn't want to send their kids to the best schools but everybody can't go. It isn't surprising that those people figure the grapes were sour anyway and "wouldn't eat them even if they could". |
Some people actually find that life is good, even if it doesn't cost a lot. |
Does your child attend the best school in the universe? Or are you limiting their potential? /sarcasm I'd rather be a good parent to my child than worry about where on your scale of gray I land. I will provide a stable home environment and challenge my kids in fun ways. And I hope they grow up to be happy, well rounded, and successful in the way they choose. You may call that a "coping mechanism", but IDGAF because you sound like a batty helicopter mom. |