Bf looks so happy in pictures with his exes!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:you sound pathetic . facebook= fake book

don't be nasty.

[Anonymous]

After a few failed relationships, people learn to compromise. They hook up with people who they may not be totally in love or lust with. Maybe he is not really into you, but still wants a girlfriend for sex etc.

So, he is biding time with you until someone better comes along. That is the most obvious answer.

To keep pictures of his exes on FB is pretty lame and douchy behavior.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe because he's older now, and more mature. Most grown men don't exactly relish being in cutesy lovey-dovey photos.

OP here. Well, he says that he has never liked social media and past girlfriends would tag him in photos other people took at parties etc. He said that when he was in high school he was big on PDA (got kicked out of a starbucks this one time for some really heavy PDA) and since he is more private now and hates the idea that people know his personal life.

Well there you go.

+1

At my age, if so one is posting a ton of lovey-dovey photos I'm wondering who are they trying to convince that the relationship is perfect? Signal to the ex, I'm over you? Telling all their friends " I got a man"? Signal to your guy's other woman to back off? I'm old school that when you are in a serious long term relationship post college you don't discuss everything with your friends about that person. That it is personal between you and your significant other/ spouse. I would see no need to broadcast lots of photos.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, people are often happier in college than in the reality of post-college years. He'll probably be happier in a few years

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:After a few failed relationships, people learn to compromise. They hook up with people who they may not be totally in love or lust with. Maybe he is not really into you, but still wants a girlfriend for sex etc.

So, he is biding time with you until someone better comes along. That is the most obvious answer.

To keep pictures of his exes on FB is pretty lame and douchy behavior.

+100000 think its weird he still has the pictures on fb.

[Anonymous]

Double up on the bjs

[Anonymous]

I would feel the same way if in your shoes OP.

Personally, I feel that after a 2yr commitment, it is highly disrespectful of your guy to have photos of him and his ex's in his Facebook.

I don't think that would sit very well with me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would feel the same way if in your shoes OP.

Personally, I feel that after a 2yr commitment, it is highly disrespectful of your guy to have photos of him and his ex's in his Facebook.

I don't think that would sit very well with me.

Those are pics that his exes have tagged him in through the years; not stuff he has put up himself.

[Anonymous]

I think you old enough to stop focusing on the superficial and assess your relationship on something real.