Bf looks so happy in pictures with his exes!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe because he's older now, and more mature. Most grown men don't exactly relish being in cutesy lovey-dovey photos.

OP here. Well, he says that he has never liked social media and past girlfriends would tag him in photos other people took at parties etc. He said that when he was in high school he was big on PDA (got kicked out of a starbucks this one time for some really heavy PDA) and since he is more private now and hates the idea that people know his personal life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Seems to me like he no longer feels the need to use Facebook/social media to validate his choices and feelings.

The exact opposite of OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Seems to me like he no longer feels the need to use Facebook/social media to validate his choices and feelings.

The exact opposite of OP.

Most of us have gone through this phase, I think. It's understandable, OP, but do not obsess or give importance to this stuff.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe because he's older now, and more mature. Most grown men don't exactly relish being in cutesy lovey-dovey photos.

OP here. Well, he says that he has never liked social media and past girlfriends would tag him in photos other people took at parties etc. He said that when he was in high school he was big on PDA (got kicked out of a starbucks this one time for some really heavy PDA) and since he is more private now and hates the idea that people know his personal life.

Well there you go.

[Anonymous]

It doesn't matter if he's awkward with you in photos, but it does matter if he's awkward in real life. Does he cuddle you? Is he loving and affectionate? That's what's important.

Plus, he may have been drunk in those earlier photos, which lessens inhibitions.

But regardless, how he actually treats you is all that matters.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you are a but-her-face.... he's happy to do you but doesn't want any documentary evidence.

[Anonymous]

Thoughts:

How do you feel about him, and how does he feel about you? That's all you should be thinking about as you move through this relationship together.

Stop worrying about how he looks in pictures with his exes. Unless you have concrete evidence in your real lives that your relationship lacks depth and sincerity, you are wasting time and probably annoying the snot out of him (and you) fretting about petty social media appearances.

[Anonymous]

I'm so glad I'm not in my twenties anymore.

[Anonymous]

OP if he already told you why this happened, why are you asking us?

[Anonymous]

You dont look as good as them and he isnt happy to show you off

[Anonymous]

Maybe you could both stop using FB and use the interactions you have with him in real life as a barometer for your relationship.

[Anonymous]

Take a pic of your bf farting on your head.....worked for me!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe you could both stop using FB and use the interactions you have with him in real life as a barometer for your relationship.

+1

[Anonymous]

old photos of exes will be the death of you.

don't look at them.

focus on the person in front of you and his relationship with you and just isolate that from the past

and get on with it.

[Anonymous]

you sound pathetic . facebook= fake book