Friend of several years changed her number and cut me out of her life

[Anonymous]

You need to write her an apology telling her that even if the friendship can't be saved you are very sorry for what you said and that you are happy for her achievement and wish her luck.

Live and learn.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You need to write her an apology telling her that even if the friendship can't be saved you are very sorry for what you said and that you are happy for her achievement and wish her luck.

Live and learn.

This.

[Anonymous]

You are common and vulgar. I can't understand why she didn't change her no 20 years ago

[Anonymous]

Brandi Glanville, is that you?

[Anonymous]

As someone who is on the other side of this and just stepped away from a 20+ year friendship, I'll tell you it's probably because it was the very last straw. I'm guessing she discussed this with you over and over again over the years and you probably ignored her feelings and called her "uptight" or "sensitive"?

[Anonymous]

You sound like a bitch, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You need to write her an apology telling her that even if the friendship can't be saved you are very sorry for what you said and that you are happy for her achievement and wish her luck.

Live and learn.

This.

+2. Sounds like she's just had enough and blocked your number. You need to apologize and say you hope you can patch it up and you'll stop with the crude, annoying comments. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

I tend to have a tongue in cheek sense of humor myself, but that is really tacky.

Even Chelsea Handler would agree.

Just bad judgment right there.

You owe her a steak dinner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would imagine that there had been a lot of similar comments that happened long before that one. That was a big deal for her and you couldn't give it the respect it deserved. It was probably her last straw.

This. This is what I was thinking.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I used to have a friend that would constantly make fun of me; because sometimes I would say things that were not grammatically correct or mis spell something. She would laugh and say oh it's because she's not from this country. This went on for years. I told her to stop and told her how offensive it was. About two years ago, I commented on something on her FB page and she another friend of hers then commented and said oh it's because she's not from this country. Well I got fed up and that was end of our 10 year plus friendship. I can honestly say, I'm much happier without her in my life and put up with her stuff for way too many years.

Maybe your friend was tired of it too.

I was in the same situation, except instead of my friend saying she wasn't from this country (she is from this country), she would always say that I was being too sensitive. That was always her excuse. I'm better off without her.

[Anonymous]

OP: she is starting over by going to grad school. You are probably not the only one she cut off. That said, you should apologize. You probably did not mean to sound so offensive, but unfortunately you did. You completely discredited her achievement.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP: she is starting over by going to grad school. You are probably not the only one she cut off. That said, you should apologize. You probably did not mean to sound so offensive, but unfortunately you did. You completely discredited her achievement.

WTF? I went to grad school twice and I didn't cut off any friends. She's cut off because she was a total ass. That's not a quirky funny thing to do; it's beyond rude and disrespectful.

[Anonymous]

Crass would be: holy s%#t congratulations, girl!!

What you said is rude and offensive. And I swear and make sex jokes all.the time. But never in an insulting or degrading way to others.

I cut off a friend and it was a last straw type thing and I had tried to ask her nicely to stop being so mean on several occasions.

[Anonymous]

Introspect OP. Sounds like a jealous catty comment. So hurtful and so not funny in any way.

[Anonymous]

I cut a friend off who kept making references or comments about me related to sex. Im a married mother I don't cheat I don't know where she got it from but I got tired of even thinking about why she was saying it and it I cut her off.

Honestly it skeeves me out so much I don't even want to have to explain it to her so she's randomly still calling or texting or emailing and I just rolled my eyes with that every time it was the straw that broke the camels back when she made one final comment about me being a swinger WTF.