Would you tell a friend that her DH is talking about their sex life in a less than flattering manner

[Anonymous]

Oh my a man is having sex with his wife

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[Anonymous]

Did he send dick pics

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The husband is depending on the "group" to keep this secret at his wife's expense. I wonder if he knew he was going to exposed if he would act the same way.

Of course not.

That is why we have man code. If we talk about our wives/GFs, it does not get repeated. Pretty much common sense amongst men.

If OP's DH is sharing this info freely to his wife, he won't be golfing with the boys anymore. He might as well sign up to get his nails done with his DW and her friends. I know I wouldn't be inviting him around the guys anymore.

So do you talk that way about your wife? You sound like an ass.

My husband and I are best friends - he pretty much tells and shares all that kind of stuff with me. A lot of my friend's spouses do as well. The "bro-code" goes out the window when you get married you loser.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Her husband talks about her like she is a whore to my DH and the rest of the guys. (Calling her trashy, talking about "plowing" his wife, etc). I do not think that she knows that he sends group text messages along these lines out to the gang. Would you say something or just let it continue?

OP, what does your husband think of the messages?

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Anonymous wrote:Crude and oversharing - yes. But nothing offensive there. Just a guy boasting to others how awesome his wife is and how their physical relationship is strong. The real issue is that your husband should not be sharing this information with his wife (OP) because it is not meant to be shared. If your husband does not want to hear about the friends' sex life, he should change the conversation or leave the scene.

I think there's a difference between telling your friends you and your wife usually have sex 4 times a week or that you all went out last night and had hot sex, and calling your wife trashy, talking about plowing her, getting graphic with what you're doing, etc. Why would a man want other men to know all that about his wife?

yea, this kind of talk usually ends with marriage. my husband and his friends will talk poorly (or objectify) women they do not know, they discuss if they are getting sex but not much more than that.

This guy sounds like an ass.

And truly stupid to be sending out information like that in writing of any sort to a group.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The husband is depending on the "group" to keep this secret at his wife's expense. I wonder if he knew he was going to exposed if he would act the same way.

Of course not.

That is why we have man code. If we talk about our wives/GFs, it does not get repeated. Pretty much common sense amongst men.

If OP's DH is sharing this info freely to his wife, he won't be golfing with the boys anymore. He might as well sign up to get his nails done with his DW and her friends. I know I wouldn't be inviting him around the guys anymore.

So do you talk that way about your wife? You sound like an ass.

My husband and I are best friends - he pretty much tells and shares all that kind of stuff with me. A lot of my friend's spouses do as well. The "bro-code" goes out the window when you get married you loser.

No I do not talk about my wife that way to my friends. Not that detailed/vulgar. But we have discussed if our wives have stopped putting out or their sex drive has increased. It lasts all of 2 minutes of discussion, then we move on.

And no the man code does not go out the window. There are things your husband talks about with friends/colleagues that you don't know. And it doesn't really matter if you know or not.

My wife is my best friend too. But there are things I don't care to know between her and her friends....and visa versa.

[Anonymous]

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And truly stupid to be sending out information like that in writing of any sort to a group.

I have to agree with this. Documenting that shit is not cool at all because who knows who is watching. The guy could have a wife like OP that snoops in their text messages or demands he tell her everything like a whipped boy.

Any kind of talk I don't want to be repeated does not go in texts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh my a man is having sex with his wife

ALERT THE MEDIA

GET THE FAINTING COUCHES READY

This made me lol.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

And truly stupid to be sending out information like that in writing of any sort to a group.

I have to agree with this. Documenting that shit is not cool at all because who knows who is watching. The guy could have a wife like OP that snoops in their text messages or demands he tell her everything like a whipped boy.

Any kind of talk I don't want to be repeated does not go in texts.

My husband shows me texts all the time from his friends. Some paint those friends in a less than favorable light. I think the men on this forum might be shocked at how much information is beign shared with wives that you think is "sacred"

[Anonymous]

"No I do not talk about my wife that way to my friends. Not that detailed/vulgar. But we have discussed if our wives have stopped putting out or their sex drive has increased. It lasts all of 2 minutes of discussion, then we move on."

If DH ever discusses me not putting out, or that my sex drive has increased, I'll spread the word that he has a pencil dick and E.D. All over town.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

And truly stupid to be sending out information like that in writing of any sort to a group.

I have to agree with this. Documenting that shit is not cool at all because who knows who is watching. The guy could have a wife like OP that snoops in their text messages or demands he tell her everything like a whipped boy.

Any kind of talk I don't want to be repeated does not go in texts.

Hey, anyone who uses an iphone should be careful if there is a family account. I know whole families that see one anothers imessages. Dumb ass for putting that kind of stuff in writing. Ass for talking about his wife in such a derogatory manner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"No I do not talk about my wife that way to my friends. Not that detailed/vulgar. But we have discussed if our wives have stopped putting out or their sex drive has increased. It lasts all of 2 minutes of discussion, then we move on."

If DH ever discusses me not putting out, or that my sex drive has increased, I'll spread the word that he has a pencil dick and E.D. All over town.

He thinks you already tell your friends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"No I do not talk about my wife that way to my friends. Not that detailed/vulgar. But we have discussed if our wives have stopped putting out or their sex drive has increased. It lasts all of 2 minutes of discussion, then we move on."

If DH ever discusses me not putting out, or that my sex drive has increased, I'll spread the word that he has a pencil dick and E.D. All over town.

Hilarious.

My hus and has shown me texts from his friends. Quite frequently. More like - I can't believe this guy and will shake his head. He tell sme when they trash talk their wives as well. He doesn't approve of it and it is stupid of them because if you run in a circle of friends it gets back eventually.

I do find it interesting how many men on here are hiding stuff from their wives. My husband tells me everything. I tell him everything as well (even if just girl gossip). I know that some of his friends do the same thing with their wives because they will know that same things about Person X that I do (all told in bro code moments).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"No I do not talk about my wife that way to my friends. Not that detailed/vulgar. But we have discussed if our wives have stopped putting out or their sex drive has increased. It lasts all of 2 minutes of discussion, then we move on."

If DH ever discusses me not putting out, or that my sex drive has increased, I'll spread the word that he has a pencil dick and E.D. All over town.

He thinks you already tell your friends.

Unlikely, he thinks he's hot stuff in the bedroom.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"No I do not talk about my wife that way to my friends. Not that detailed/vulgar. But we have discussed if our wives have stopped putting out or their sex drive has increased. It lasts all of 2 minutes of discussion, then we move on."

If DH ever discusses me not putting out, or that my sex drive has increased, I'll spread the word that he has a pencil dick and E.D. All over town.

He thinks you already tell your friends.

Unlikely, he thinks he's hot stuff in the bedroom.

LOL

I can see it now. Telling his buddies: "Man I really give it to my wife. She can't get enough."

Wife to Friends: "ZZZZZZZZ......"