Relationship with EX after split

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP Here.

I think what makes it so hard is how non-remorseful she was and is. When we were close to the split I was very angry with her. She just said: "Get over it....". She never came to me and said she was sorry for what she did or how she handled things. Just that she doesn't want to fix things because she doesn't have it in her heart.

I felt I deserved a lot more than just that.

OP, problem is she wore the pants in the relationship. Women HATE and Disrespect. men who are too nice.

What are you talking about? How do you know what happened the 9 years prior? All you know is she cheated and we split.

Talk about jumping to conclusions.

[Anonymous]

You sound like you always had a pretty platonic relationship. Was there much sex when you were married?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You don't sound sexually jealous. Did she start seeing someone else because your physical relationship was not good?

No way was this guy banging his wife.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You sound like you always had a pretty platonic relationship. Was there much sex when you were married?

Yes

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You don't sound sexually jealous. Did she start seeing someone else because your physical relationship was not good?

No way was this guy banging his wife.

Incorrect

[Anonymous]

I agree that you should forgive her for YOU, not for her. And continue to keep it civil for the sake of your child. If being friendly with her is bringing up the anger, then limit your interactions to child-related things. It may be that in the future when you have truly moved on then the anger will be gone and you just won't care anymore, but you're not there yet.