Ask DH to remove photos of & with ex on Facebook??

[Anonymous]

what on earth?? he almost had sex with someone else and you are worried about his ex girlfriend? holy moly..get your priorities together!

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't worry about the old pics on Facebook.

[Anonymous]

Troll.

[Anonymous]

you are focusing on the wrong thing, I can't really follow your thinking. The fact that your DH tried to have sex with someone else is HUGE. I don't care how bad things were or how much better they are now - that is huge and you are downplaying it but wringing your hands over something inconsequential.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wait a minute...how did you find out about the other woman and them not having sex?

And now you are waiting for the next trip to see what happens? What the hell is wrong with you?

You realize he may have sex with her or someone else on this next trip - it's unfathomable to me that you can bear him going away again knowing the risk.
And that you can hold this inside for so long.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Troll.

Maybe so.

[Anonymous]

So he tried to hook up for sex when he was out of town. He's traveling for business soon. You're waiting until he gets back to discuss his behavior?! Um, OK...
Sorry Honey, you've got to get a clue....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You have no business accessing his social media accounts and other personal information.

You make it sound like she hacked into his FB account! I'm willing to bet she's FRIENDS with her DH and in scrolling through pictures that he's tagged in, she could plainly see the XGF in some of them!

[Anonymous]

Gee, give her a break. She is slowly realizing the situation here while still trying to remain cool. She doesn't want to ask because she doesn't want to know because once she has that conversation her life will change forever. What a terrible place to be especially with a baby.

OP, take time to get yourself together. Get your finances together and when you're ready, confront him.

[Anonymous]

OP, you didn't tell us how you learned that your husband actually planned on having an affair w/another woman? Can you elaborate....In other words are you 100% absolutely positive that you are right on about this? If you are, then you need to focus everything on that issue and deal w/that.

In all honesty, the pictures of him and his ex are nothing compared to what he tried to do to you a few months ago.

I mean...C'mom. He would have cheated on you (according to you) had it not been for logistics. This is MAJOR. HUGE.

Pictures of him w/an ex posted prior to your marriage are peanuts.

And might I ask the obvious question here?

Am I missing something here..??! Why in God's name are you still w/this man if he tried to sleep w/another lady? Do you not have any self-respect? Even an ounce??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think you SHOULD have him take the social media pics off. Why can he grill you about your friends etc. but you shouldn't ask him anything?
Why are you waiting to ask him about his attempt to have sex with another? How did you find out?

+1. He will probably try to have sex again on the next trip. Why are you sitting on this information???

[Anonymous]

He tried to have sex with someone else and you are worried about Facebook posts. The two of you have bigger problems than the pictures in Facebook as you don't trust him (and I wouldn't either).

[Anonymous]

Why would you wait until after his next business trip? Then you will have another trip to wonder about if anything went on , in addition to the first!
The Facebook stuff pales in comparison to attempted affairs. Not sure why you are focusing on that instead of the real problem.

[Anonymous]

Trolly Polly.

[Anonymous]

Some straight iCarly bullshit