Bad sex

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why is it always the man's fault?

It could just be an issue of incompatibility. It didn't have to be someone's fault.

The laziness is what's most bothersome. "He sucks in bed. Should I dump him?" Is the essence of the post.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You should have spoken up.

My DH was good but not great until I spoke to him and guided him to my clit.

How can a grown man not know where to find a clot?

Good call, it's right around where your IQ measures.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if you had sex with my ex. I really, REALLY liked him but the sex was just terrible. After we had dated a bit longer, I found out that I was literally his 3rd or 4th partner (he was 35) and none of his relationships had been long ones due to military deployments. I think he honestly just doesn't know how.

(he also didn't know how to use condoms, apparently, which is how we ended up as coparents.)

I was sad when we broke up - for other reasons - but the idea of living with bad sex forever made the breakup a little easier. It can be hard to teach a guy that age new tricks.

LOL, joke's on you. You slam him for being inexperienced, but you were stupid enough to allow him to knock you up.

Pass on those good decision making genes, mmmkay?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow, so much for spending time getting to know each other sexually and just enjoying the process. Damn.

As Chris Rock says, one strike and your're out with today's hyper entitled women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No wonder women don't want to date me after first time sex. I always do mild hair pulling and a couple of butt slaps assuming they all liked this. Next time I'll ask.

I would marry you after this. Especially if you're loaded and can cook.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No wonder women don't want to date me after first time sex. I always do mild hair pulling and a couple of butt slaps assuming they all liked this. Next time I'll ask.

I would marry you after this. Especially if you're loaded and can cook.

CPA earning six figures but nothing great. Excellent cook of grilled food, salads, and pasta meals.

[Anonymous]

Damn...we have some men on here with a bad case of butt hurt.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No wonder women don't want to date me after first time sex. I always do mild hair pulling and a couple of butt slaps assuming they all liked this. Next time I'll ask.

I would marry you after this. Especially if you're loaded and can cook.

CPA earning six figures but nothing great. Excellent cook of grilled food, salads, and pasta meals.

Sounds too healthy. Plus, I'm married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Damn...we have some men on here with a bad case of butt hurt.

Please see the "I know dozens of beautiful, accomplished women who can't find a man" thread.

It seems to be more of the ladies doing the complaining, honestly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Damn...we have some men on here with a bad case of butt hurt.

Please see the "I know dozens of beautiful, accomplished women who can't find a man" thread.

It seems to be more of the ladies doing the complaining, honestly.

That thread is of zero interest to me. I've never opened it. I have no problem meeting men....good men and even tall men (major criteria).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow, so much for spending time getting to know each other sexually and just enjoying the process. Damn.

At our age, it's time wasted if the sex is bad vs. simply not earth-shattering.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow, so much for spending time getting to know each other sexually and just enjoying the process. Damn.

As Chris Rock says, one strike and your're out with today's hyper entitled women.

After a decade of bad sex in my marriage, you're damn right that I am entitled to good sex.

[Anonymous]

No one is saying is you should live with bad sex.

What I don't understand is meeting a guy that you are starting to like, having bad sex with him and then dumping him. Why not try to coach him up? He may simply not know any better. Do you think he is incapable of learning? He may have had previous lovers who didn't know what they were doing either, so he never learned.

It just just seems very shortsighted.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow, so much for spending time getting to know each other sexually and just enjoying the process. Damn.

As Chris Rock says, one strike and your're out with today's hyper entitled women.

After a decade of bad sex in my marriage, you're damn right that I am entitled to good sex.

It takes two to tango.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No one is saying is you should live with bad sex.

What I don't understand is meeting a guy that you are starting to like, having bad sex with him and then dumping him. Why not try to coach him up? He may simply not know any better. Do you think he is incapable of learning? He may have had previous lovers who didn't know what they were doing either, so he never learned.

It just just seems very shortsighted.

You cannot teach chemistry.