Do I let him go or is there hope?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There is always hope if you choose to look for it. It can be a hard search, but I believe it is possible.

Good luck

OP here. Hope with this guy OR hope with someone different?

[Anonymous]

If the details of your story didn't match my ex I would say you are dating him.

You are the rebound chick. With my ex, he is also a pathological liar and very charming.

You fell for it, learn from this experience and move on to find someone better.

[Anonymous]

Years ago, in one of those magazine advice columns for women written by a man, I remember the words:

"Watch what he does, not what he says."

Women too often get caught up by words. His actions are showing exactly what everyone else has said -- he wants to keep the option of hooking up with you when he comes to the U.S., until he finds someone he wants to get serious about. He is putting in the least amount of effort possible that he thinks might get that for him from you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There is always hope if you choose to look for it. It can be a hard search, but I believe it is possible.

Good luck

OP here. Hope with this guy OR hope with someone different?

seriously OP? it's not like you're a fresh 20-year old naive in the ways of the world and dating. find someone else and just forget about this guy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There is always hope if you choose to look for it. It can be a hard search, but I believe it is possible.

Good luck

OP here. Hope with this guy OR hope with someone different?

seriously OP? it's not like you're a fresh 20-year old naive in the ways of the world and dating. find someone else and just forget about this guy.

Ok, point taken

[Anonymous]

Yes god luck OP