I can't wait to show it to my DH. |
We hoped for very bright, but knew very bright people who had average or below children so we didn't expect anything. We were not prepared for "Oh, crap, she's clearly already a lot smarter than us." by pre-school. |
Your preschooler is smarter than you are? That is very odd. |
If that were true, we should see some unbelievably awesome tennis players from Steffi Graf and Andre Agassi! |
| yes, somewhat (other factors matter, there's a whole lot of random and some regression to the mean) and exacerbated by assortative mating. |
| OP, what is the purpose of the question? |
It IS odd. And a bit stressful. Clearly she isn't more educated, but it was evident by age 3 that she learned extremely fast with virtually no repetition and wasn't just parroting things back. She's in ES now and far advanced of where we were in middle school. |
This has been studied. Intelligent people can have an average kid, dumb kid or an intelligent kid. intelligence is not just genes, environment and diet also matter. |
No. Same thing. |
Not the PP but no, IQ scoring and intelligence are not the same thing. |
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I feel like all kids are much more advanced from where we were. Things are so different now. |
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Intelligence can be molded throughout your life. The more studious you are and the more you apply yourself, the more you learn.
If you've heard about the marshmallow test, then you know that there was a correlation between the children who were able to restrain themselves from eating the marshmallow and higher SAT scores. As an anecdotal example my sister was smarter than me in school. She would learn things right away whereas I needed to have things explained to me several times. But she was a very lazy scholar and hated studying. I ended up a scientist and she spent most of her twenties globe trotting and is just starting her career at the age of thirty. I wouldn't say one of us is more "successful" than the other. She has great life stories and I have a great 401k. |
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Identical twins do not get same grades
siblings from same set of parents would theoretically have same iq and therefore as accomplished in school, but they are not |
Grades aren't the same as IQ. Everyone know the story about Albert Einstein flunking math in grammar school. IQ refers to the ability to learn and ease of learning not the use of that ability. Yes, IQ is inherited. Many other things play a role in it but smart parents usually create smart children, average parents create average children. Exceptions exist, of course, but it seems pretty clear at this point that intelligence is genetic. |