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| My younger DD is much, much brighter than her dad or I. And both of us are very intellectually-inclined people who did well in school (good GPAs, grad school degrees, etc.). Therefore, if you are correct, she was probably swapped in the hospital. |
Exactly. remember the Nobel Prize-type DCUMer who was so disappointed in her average son? |
I'm the OP and I'm not the one who thinks that straight IQ is subject to reversion to the mean - so no, I think you and your DH should have expected a very bright daughter. |
No. Statistics apply to the population, not to the individual. |
So substitute "high intelligence" instead of "IQ". When both parents are highly intelligent, doesn't it make sense to assume their child will be highly intelligent and make educational plans accordingly? |
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ANd patterns of strengths and weaknesses within IQs tend to be inherited. Yes, shaped by environment but given at a base.
Think nature loads the gun and nurture pulls the trigger. |
Wrong. IQ is so changeable, and the experiences and environment that bright parents create for their children really affect that. It is nearly impossible to tease out environment vs. genes, and no one had made the case on this thread that it's solely genetics. IQ is partly heritable, but it is influenced by so, so much. |
My statement was presuming the premise regarding genetics was true, not what I really believe. My personal belief is that it is a combination of genes and env't. |
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I have a very high IQ and DH has a high IQ. We have not done any of these things. It is becoming apparent that our oldest probably has a high IQ but I have zero expectations about what that means for his future. I don't even expect he will go to college though I imagine he likely will. |
We're just average and assume our average kids will go to college - and we began saving at their births. A college degree is what a high school degree was 50 years ago and is simply necessary today - even if they decide to go to trade school after they get their BA. |
True, I believe an intelligent child will do well anywhere, but the environment can affect the pace and depth of learning. |
How is that -- you don't even expect it but you imagine it's likely he will? You don't have to have a highly intelligent child to anticipate they will go to college. It's a pretty standard expectation. |
Ha..I knew it! I showed this article to my DH, who is British. Yes, my ds is smart
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