| During a rough spot in our relationship DH told me he tolerated me. |
That's not insulting. That's the truth. |
Yea right. Some people find me conservative, but even I know those Tea Party people are wayyyy offff track. Sheesh! |
| "You're just like your mother" at the end of a bad fight |
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Considering she was supposed to be my closest friend, it was pretty damn insulting. I threw up every day for five months on my way into work. I was hoping for a little support or empathy. Anyway, her next words confirmed it all. "You have a boyfriend, so you shouldn't be complaining." I knew then we'd gotten to the real story. |
| We were at a family reunion and the babysitter looked at me (40s) and my 20-something cousin & said nicely to me, "You two look like sisters!" My SIL said to me: "Yeah...from the side. From the back..." |
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The most hurtful thing was my mom telling me I was being a bitch a couple times when I was little.
Straight up rudest thing was a guy trying to explain why he couldn't keep it up during a drunken hookup - "I normally sleep with 8 or 9's, and you're more a 5 or 6" okay buddy. You willingly went home with me...
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"You're untrustworthy."
From someone who had lied to me repeatedly, and to whom I kept giving the benefit of the doubt. |
| Friend emailed me and asked what was up. I replied my father just passed away. I ran into her 3 weeks later and she said, "I got your email about your dad dying. I was too busy to reply." |
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"you used to be so hot" ( I'm 39 and was apparently much cuter at 23 pre -kids)
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My mom (who favored my brothers, who were both older than me): "Just you wait, you try to love all of your kids, but you will have favorites, too!"
My brother (the oldest): "You'll see with your kids. You treat the oldest completely differently than the younger ones. It's just a really special relationship." Um, no and no. |
| A person who was pregnant at the same time as me said upon our departure, "It will be fun to see you again in a few months when you are showing." I was clearly showing. |
I could swear you mistakenly called this person your friend.
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"Wow, your bottom doesn't look like a rhinocerous like the last time I saw you!"
Said by my grandmother when I was home from college for a visit. I guess that was a compliment though? It was such a ridiculous statement (I was maybe down 5 pounds, but had never been seriously overweight) and so typical of my grandmother that even at the time I could laugh about it, though I remember it to this day! |