Older men

Anonymous wrote:
I'm guessing most of the posters here, especially the insulting ones, are well under 40.

40+ women don't worry about "competition" from younger women and we don't worry too much about age at all. Also, clue stick, many of us don't want to get married and have babies.

One of the very best things about sex and dating over 40 is that it isn't such a drama anymore. There are available partners both older and younger and all of them have their advantages and disadvantages. All in all, it is fun, flexible, and free of all the petty nonsense posted here.

And, if you do want to get married or be in a relationship, that's not some impossible task in the real world.

You seem balanced, but what's with the hatred and vitriol for older men on this board? I'm assuming it comes from 40ish women, but it's really off-putting. Do you have friends that think like this? I don't see men with the same hatred and vitriol for older women. We love grandma, even though we don't want to date her. Lots of women on this board with ISSUES.

Honestly, I don't know. I don't have any vitriol for older men, nor do I know anyone IRL who does. I do know know plenty of women in their 40s who date both both younger and older, and I don't hear them harping about age like I do here.

Lots of people on this board have issues, but many more of us don't. Maybe you don't here more from those of us who don't because we find the whole issue kind of silly and not worth thinking too deeply about.

Whoever you are, man or woman, whether you refer to women over 40 as "grandma" (I'm guessing you were trying for an insult, there, but failed) or not, I hope you find a good person who turns you on and is someone you enjoy spending time with, so you won't worry about whatever nonsense people here throw at each other.

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12/15/2013 22:27

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Anonymous

*hear, not *here.

Sorry.

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12/16/2013 21:10

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Anonymous

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I actually find 50 year old men dating women in their 30s to be disgusting.

are you a women in her 40's or 50's?

that would explain it.

its a natural defense mechanism. your younger more attractive competition is stealing your men.

All men want to have sex with women who are closest to their physical primes...ie. 22-28 or so..and 28 is pushing it. and 22 is probably too high of a bottom end of the range.

If the men say they dont its just a defense mechanism to help them feel better about not being able to.

put a 40 year old man alone in a room with a 22 year old woman who wants to fuck him, and i assure you that tight skin and supple body will become pretty damn attractive pretty damn quickly.

Ew, you're gross. Stay the f--k away from my DD.

I am the first P here. No, I am not a women in her 40s or 50s losing out to younger women. I am a married man in his 50s, who finds 50 year old men dating women 15 years younger to be disgusting. Frankly, the women have nothing to say, as they have done nothing, yet.

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12/17/2013 11:30

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Anonymous

Women do not get more to say or more interesting when they get older. If shes vapid at 22, she will still be at 47.

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12/17/2013 11:38

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Anonymous wrote:Women do not get more to say or more interesting when they get older. If shes vapid at 22, she will still be at 47.

Men in their early years are obsessed with tits and ass, so they don't really notice the beauty of women until they're older.
Hence older men are more appreciative and accommodating.
Women in their early years can't see past Cinderella fairytales, so they don't really notice the ugliness of women until they're older.
Hence older women are more uncompromising and bitchy.