I feel guilty that I'm over it so quickly

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No update on the date. Apparently too busy, already wrapped up in her new guy.

Yep, seems like it. She really was over the ex fast.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No update on the date. Apparently too busy, already wrapped up in her new guy.

Yep, seems like it. She really was over the ex fast.

OP here - ouch guys!

Date had to be postponed to tonight. I'm on the west coast so going in 4 hours. I WILL keep you posted!

And in my defense, I was with my ex for a year and had 2 orgasms (with him) in that time. We went out on maybe 5-6 real dates (runs to walmart do not count). I agonized over breaking up with him for close to 3 months. Sorry if it seems quick, but I'm 21 and finally FREE. I want to get out and have some fun!

[Anonymous]

Why do you think you had only two orgasms? He didn't last long enough, or maybe not enough penis length or thickness? Or maybe terrible technique and terrible movement? Or all the above?

[Anonymous]

I recall a gf from long ago who only had two orgasms with me during vaginal intercourse the 9 month period we were together. However, she had three orgasms during the two times we did anal. 5 orgasms total and most of them during the only two times anal happened. I believe she needed more penis size for vaginal, even though I'm average size and not small, there are women who need or desire more.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No update on the date. Apparently too busy, already wrapped up in her new guy.

Yep, seems like it. She really was over the ex fast.

OP here - ouch guys!

Date had to be postponed to tonight. I'm on the west coast so going in 4 hours. I WILL keep you posted!

And in my defense, I was with my ex for a year and had 2 orgasms (with him) in that time. We went out on maybe 5-6 real dates (runs to walmart do not count). I agonized over breaking up with him for close to 3 months. Sorry if it seems quick, but I'm 21 and finally FREE. I want to get out and have some fun!

Let's hope the sex is better with the new guy, I guess it's bound to be. Got any clues yet that makes you think it will be?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No update on the date. Apparently too busy, already wrapped up in her new guy.

Yep, seems like it. She really was over the ex fast.

OP here - ouch guys!

Date had to be postponed to tonight. I'm on the west coast so going in 4 hours. I WILL keep you posted!

And in my defense, I was with my ex for a year and had 2 orgasms (with him) in that time. We went out on maybe 5-6 real dates (runs to walmart do not count). I agonized over breaking up with him for close to 3 months. Sorry if it seems quick, but I'm 21 and finally FREE. I want to get out and have some fun!

Next time, don't do this. Break it off fast. And if you're not sexually compatible with a guy, don't keep him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No update on the date. Apparently too busy, already wrapped up in her new guy.

Yep, seems like it. She really was over the ex fast.

OP here - ouch guys!

Date had to be postponed to tonight. I'm on the west coast so going in 4 hours. I WILL keep you posted!

And in my defense, I was with my ex for a year and had 2 orgasms (with him) in that time. We went out on maybe 5-6 real dates (runs to walmart do not count). I agonized over breaking up with him for close to 3 months. Sorry if it seems quick, but I'm 21 and finally FREE. I want to get out and have some fun!

Let's hope the sex is better with the new guy, I guess it's bound to be. Got any clues yet that makes you think it will be?

No clues yet! I don't know the guy very well. But you're right that he's bound to be better, and he's good looking enough that I'm determined to find out

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm on the other side. Was recently broken up with. Depressing to hear you doing well....and dating already.

I hate it when people are like this. This is just a desire for revenge. It's gross to want the other person to suffer.

If your husband left you today and was dating another woman next week, I doubt you would have warm and fuzzy feelings for him.

[Anonymous]

My ex of 10 years left me out of the blue with a young child. He was on match and dating e next day, literally. He still is dating, not just one person. He claims to have the ability to flip a switch and turn off any feelings. He did it to me. I will never forgive him. What I learned, I did not love him either. I am not ready to date yet not because I am not over him but because for many other reasons.

[Anonymous]

The date was OK. Not great, not terrible. I'm kind of on the fence about wanting to see him again or not!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The date was OK. Not great, not terrible. I'm kind of on the fence about wanting to see him again or not!

Is he boring?
Any playing around, kiss, or sex?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The date was OK. Not great, not terrible. I'm kind of on the fence about wanting to see him again or not!

Warrants a second date!

Not every first date is magical - people are nervous and new to one another. Dates two and three are where the decision-making info comes out (aside from truly terrible first dates).

[Anonymous]

OP, whats the oldest youll date? And why are you on a DC moms board as a 21 yr old from the west coast!

[Anonymous]

Women are generally much better at leaving relationships in the past, or getting over a breakup. It is a biological imperative that they be able to do so. Called the war bride phenomenon or something like that. Totally contrary to what the movies and public might imagine, but true.