Is sex with your SO the best you've had?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He is the only sex partner I have ever had...(we were high school sweethearts)

+1 us too. I don't know what anything else would feel like

[Anonymous]

My DH is the only sex partner I've had. 25 years in, the sex is typically very enjoyable, though it's not as frequent as it was in the early years.

[Anonymous]

what is SO I hate these symbols!

[Anonymous]

significant other?

[Anonymous]

SO = significant other.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He is the only sex partner I have ever had...(we were high school sweethearts)

Awww

That isn't my reaction. My reaction was: "How sad."

[Anonymous]

In the beginning. Now he's lost his libido and when I try to initiate he makes comments about me needing to take a shower, shave, etc. He makes me feel like shit, which brings my libido right in line with his.

It's too bad because he's actually a very sensual person and talented in bed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In the beginning. Now he's lost his libido and when I try to initiate he makes comments about me needing to take a shower, shave, etc. He makes me feel like shit, which brings my libido right in line with his.

My situation, as well, just gender reversed.

[Anonymous]

If more women had self-respect and closed their legs when younger, they wouldn't be unsatisfied as wives.

[Anonymous]

No, but he's pretty dang good when he works up the energy every few months.

[Anonymous]

Selfish and lazy, in and out of bed.

[Anonymous]

Yes and no... Yes because he is so loving, everything he does comes from a place of pure love and I feel so lucky. It truly feels like a sacred relationship.

No because I climax about once a month, and it is has always been this way with the exception of one VERY well endowed partner (and that only increased me to 3 or 4x a month).

However, I am still a sexual person and want to have sex all the time. So in many ways it is THE best and yet it is not even fully satisfying.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If more women had self-respect and closed their legs when younger, they wouldn't be unsatisfied as wives.

So in your mind ignorance leads to bliss?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If more women had self-respect and closed their legs when younger, they wouldn't be unsatisfied as wives.

I don't know about anyone else but I'm not unsatisfied.

[Anonymous]

Best sex I've ever had was with my DH. Sometimes it was sweet, tender and loving, other times it was plain old fucking - it was great. Unfortunately, he also suffers from depression and the medication he takes to control it kills his sex drives. He's tried other meds but it seems I can either have a DH with depression under control or a sex life. I can't have both. As much as I long for sex, I'd rather have my husband than the person he is when in the grips of depression.