Is sex with your SO the best you've had?
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Anonymous
Same here. A couple times a year, I get all shivery thinking about how amazing he felt. But then I remember the bipolar disorder. |
Anonymous
In other words, he could possibly be horrible in bed and you may not know it? |
Anonymous
| Well my DH is the only one I've ever been with, but I orgasm every time and it feels pretty great. |
Anonymous
| Not even close. |
Anonymous
| No. Not by a long shot, but he is the best match overall and the best partner and friend, so I have tried to let go of the rest. |
Anonymous
| YES! Been married 8 years together 12 and I still want him. Doesn't hurt that he is large and in charge down there. |
Anonymous
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I see this problem a lot in marriages.
People have wonderful spouses. They have good jobs, are good parents, do their fair share around the house and treat their significant other w/respect and integrity. But when it comes to the sex, it seems something is always lacking. Sometimes it is mediocre....Or sometimes it is just bad. But it is never like it was w/that past fling... 
Why this trade-off??! Why can't people have the whole package? I think because when you live w/someone for many yrs., day in and day out...You get to know everything and see everything about them and sometimes that isn't always romantic. Trust me....When a couple starts going No.#2 in front of each other w/the door open or cleaning out their earwax in front of each other, that just isn't sexy. But w/flings, we don't see all that. So the sex is better. We only see the sexual side of things. 
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Anonymous
Part of it is familiarity. But, part of it is that the same things that make people reliable and stable tend to also make them sexually unexciting, and the things that make them sexually exciting make them unreliable and unstable. The more you're interested in sex and not a long term relationship; the more volatile you should be toward the opposite sex. The more you're interested in a stable relationship and not sex; the more courteous, polite, and safe you should be toward the opposite sex. If you want both, well, good luck with that. |
Anonymous
| You have to admit, this is one of the nice things about how it used to be for almost everyone -- waiting for marriage and marrying young. You had nothing else to compare it to for your entire life. You can't long for what you don't know. I almost feel bad for guys today because not only must they always be ready to perform but they must always be better than the woman's previous partners. It's a lot to ask a guy. |
Anonymous
Totally disagree. The guy just needs a big dick. Who cares if he shits, his dick touches the water when he takes a dump. Still sexy! |
Anonymous
| My husband is the worst lover ever. Sex is really horrible. He does these weird jerky moves an he tries to bang me in an upward motion that hurts. It's just not good. He also moans so loudly its very distracting. I met an ex of his at a party and while talking she mentioned how sex with her bf is so wonderful. That made me think it was her way of saying your husband wants bad in bed. |
Anonymous
| Oops sorry for the mistakes^^^. |
Anonymous
| Yes. It is awesome. Married 4 years. Unfortunately I sometimes hate his guts when I remember how he cheated on me. |
Anonymous
| unfortunately not even close. |
Anonymous
This. |