
leave him |
Strange your husband didn't mention it. I usually let my wife know about large purchases and things I did like "the massage was good, bad etc..."
Do you have a birthday coming up maybe it's a gift? |
Almost certainly a front for a nazi pedophile ring (like prostitutes, they also accept credit cards and offer receipts). I would just divorce him and not bother to ask his side. |
This is solid advice, OP. Do this. |
If he didn't tell you about it, there's a reason. If it were a legit massage, he would have mentioned it. |
well, I logged into spa finder out of curiosity. Several reviews of "Luba's great hands" and "nice personality" (despite her "not great body") suggest this is not the kind of spa OP's husband is buying a gift card for her at. |
Is money tight right now? Maybe that's why he didn't tell you about a large purchase like a massage. |
This. Sorry, OP, you do not want to admit it but your husband is up to no good. Google a little more, there is an online community where men talk about these places, who to see, what you get, etc. I only know this because I googled a place near my home thinking it's a parlor and it indeed was. Seriously, do NOT mention it to him until you do your research. If you do not have solid evidence yet he will cover his tracks. |
Where did you find it on Spafinders? http://www.spafinder.ca/all-spas/N=1383&locid=-1 |
This is why I let my spouse get massages only from women with no hands. |
Either it was a happy ending, or he bought the massage for somebody else he meets up with and tells you he is working or golfing. He left his phone at home "by accident" so that you wouldn't bother him today while he is fooling around. I am really sorry OP!!! If I were you, you should put GPS software on his phone while he is sleeping so that you can watch where he goes, maybe catch him on a date. |
You people are dumb! DH hid the massage. Red flag number 1. Of course it is a sensual massage. These businesses have to LOOK legit, but they aren't. |
Ok OP here. My DH got home minutes after I posted last night. He was sweaty and gross and had obviously been at kickboxing. It is an 8:30 class he goes to every week and said it ran long. He also does leave his phone at home a alot, we both do.
I confronted him about the $200 receipt, he immediately said that he did get a 90 minute massage after golf on Saturday that he felt guilty about, both for spending the money and because he had already been away all day for golfing. Said she charged him $165 and the rest was tip My mom was in town this weekend and we were out and about and I really didn't notice how long he was gone. Anyway, he adament that he did not get a happy ending and that the place is legit and he found it by using google maps to find a massage place near where he was golfing. He has been exercising a lot lately and I know has been having back problems. Anyway, I believe him. I think I read too many relationship threads on this website and just immediately starting thinking in my mind - this is it, I'm an idiot, he is cheating, my life is over. I'm not going to check back in on this thread. I'm done thinking about it and I trust and believe my husband. Thanks everyone. |
Sorry, it was on spa hunters, not spa finder!
here are the reviews: Saw Luba a few weeks ago and it was great. Very good massage. I have seen her before when she was at sense of Europe and she remembered me as I did her. Like someone else said on here, "She is just so damn friendly and has great hand." I agree with both. WALL22 Review Rating: submitted by WALL22 (level 1 user) on Oct 07, 2012 1:21 PM Stll around, Strong hands, enjoys to talk if you are into that. Nice and very respectful. Place is very clean and price is normal for area. HAWKTB9 Comment submitted by HAWKTB9 (level 4 user) on Nov 19, 2009 3:31 PM Has anyone been to this place recently? HAWKTB9 Comment submitted by HAWKTB9 (level 4 user) on Sep 17, 2009 1:58 PM Be on the lookout for MoCounty, though... You never know when one of those neighbors start whining and then the suits come swarming out of nowhere... MAKISUSHI Review Rating: submitted by MAKISUSHI (level 2 user) on Aug 26, 2009 6:27 AM I saw Luba who used to work at Sense of Europe, in the good ole days. The service is very similar to back then, but Luba is now about 25 pounds heavier. You have to call for an appointment, and the place is kind of hard to find, its in the basement of an old house. It is hard to say whether I will return or not. The setting isn't that great, and Luba's body isn't that great, BUT she is just so damn friendly and has great hands. |
Poor woman just really doesn't want to know. |