How were you able to get such a big raise? I am in the same situation right now and struggling, but can't seem to find anything that will pay that much higher
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| sexist old school- good ole boy place.. run by a bunch of men that were really not business savvy .. the only people who "succeeded" there had no chance elsewhere .. |
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Bad manager who started only hiring b-level players in order to look better, seem indisposable to her boss, and act autocratic. All the people with strong work experience and backgrounds left. I recall her dinging one candidate for being "too good and thus possibly a flight risk."
She also had Queen Bee syndrome, tho treated both high performing men and women badly. |
| Women managers in an all women managers place |
Hahahahah. Too good therefore a flight risk is the stupidest thing I can imagine someone putting in your performance review |
Me too! My manager told me that everyone criticizes me to be helpful. I think theyre sort of sanctimonious. What fields are you both in? |
I am the "this sounds like my current situation" poster. What the next poster said sounds familiar too! They are on this kick to raise expecatations/ raise the bar for everyone which basically means crappy reviews across the board. I can't quite figure out what they are trying to accomplish aside from lowering morale. This is management consulting and my clients uniformly love me. My company, apparently not so much. I was ready to quit last week but will try to tough it out til I line up something else. |
| Financial services. Abusive and unpredictable bosses (husband and wife) who would try to lure us in with cash bonuses and generous gifts. They locked us in a room for an hour and a half to "think about what we can do to make the team function better". The husband screamed at me once for something very minor and I went to him later and said that not even my mother screamed at me like that and I would not tolerate it again. They also raised the idea of me being a surrogate for them during a staff meeting. Awkward. I was about 23 at the time and when I finally quit, I experienced a strange mix of pure elation and utter terror (I didn't have anything else lined up). Most of all, I remember the feeling of a sudden lightness...like a physical weight being lifted off me. |
| A surrogate? That's so inappropriate and creepy! |
| People were always using the restrooms to poop in. |