Ladies... what's the worst trait for a guy?

Anonymous
Bad breath
cocky

Don't care about weight.
Anonymous
Being mean/unkind
Self-centeredness
Arrogance
Anonymous
Dishonest
Overweight
Uneducated
Poor hygiene and poor eating habits
Smoker and Drug Abuser
Short
Lacks a sense of humor
Abusive
Selfish
Insecure
Unattractive
Ill-mannered
Overly religious
Lacks ambition
Lackluster in the bedroom
Not financially or emotionally stable
Too feminine
Lacks self-confidence
Lower class (redneck or ghetto) mentality
Anonymous
Felonies/Restraining orders
-A bunch of out of wedlock kids that he doesn't support
Addiction
-Living with some relative/friend until he "gets back on his feet"
-Psychiatric disorders that require lifelong medication and monitoring: schizophrenia or bipolar disorder.
-Morbid obesity
-His own children won't speak to him
Anonymous
Stubby hands and feet.
Anonymous
Short-tempered.
Anonymous
angry, cocky and unemployed like my DH.
Anonymous
Lacking integrity
Anonymous
Dealbreakers for me:
1) A guy who gives mixed messages - that he's available when he's not and acts all innocent about it
2) A guy who can't stop talking about himself
Anonymous
Dumb and cocky.
Anonymous
surprised more people haven't said smoking. that's a deal breaker for me and something that's obvious. some of the personality traits take a while to be exposed.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Lazy. Or cocky. Or smug.


Yes. Yes. Yes. The cocky attribute is number one in my book. I abhor arrogant men!
Anonymous
Short and/or a bad taste in shoes. Crocs are a dealbreaker.
I also cannot stand men in sandals! I don't want to look at your gross, hairy feet. I don't care if it's hot. Unless you are on the beach, get your Hobbit toes away from me. And if they're tiny Hobbit feet in sandals, I'm even more turned off.

Anonymous
No sense of humor about himself (takes himself too seriously.) Too hairy. Man jewelry (wedding ring ok, and I have a "thing" for earthy guys who wear necklaces made of string/charm, beads (think Grateful Dead.)
Anonymous
PP here, and it may sound snobby to some BUT someone not worldly, and has no desire for international travel.
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