Preference for older/mature women?

[Anonymous]

I agree! Divorced women in their late 40's/early 50's who have exited loveless marriages but have desire are a gift to younger men. Their relationship expectations are limited and having fun and great sex for the first time in years is a high priority. I'm a divorced guy in my mid-30's and I really like these ladies as there are few complications. Most just seem to want companionship, fun and great sex.

I'm a PP (divorced, ate 40s and FWB with a couple of 30 yr olds).

You nailed it, sir. These are in fact my motivations.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I agree! Divorced women in their late 40's/early 50's who have exited loveless marriages but have desire are a gift to younger men. Their relationship expectations are limited and having fun and great sex for the first time in years is a high priority. I'm a divorced guy in my mid-30's and I really like these ladies as there are few complications. Most just seem to want companionship, fun and great sex.

I'm a PP (divorced, ate 40s and FWB with a couple of 30 yr olds).

You nailed it, sir. These are in fact my motivations.

Well, if both people want the same thing... I am in my 50s already been married, had kids, etc, BTDT, so now all I want is a good time and great sex with a cute guy without any drama. I am FWB with a 26 yo right now and it's just fun. No long term commitment for either of us which is just fine

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm the PP who attracts the mid-30's guys. I agree that all I'm looking for is someone to hang out with, have a good time with and enjoy sex with. I don't want a relationship or any drama. Between full time work, half time custody, my friends and other interests I don't really have a lot of free time. Seeing someone once every week or two, maybe just for a few hours on a weeknight, is totally sufficient.

Where do you find these guys? I'm in the same boat as you and I'm confident I can make a younger guy happy. I've dated some older guys (late 50's/60's) but the sex has not been great.

Online, Tinder, Bumble, etc.

Also, I've been approached in RL. Just give them your number.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^^^ I like slightly over weight - not a lot, just a little. There's something really great about that.

+1

[Anonymous]

I read a study not long ago that men who are consistently attracted to older women often had moms who gave birth at later ages - late thirties into forties.

The study speculated that that gave these men a higher tolerance for wrinkles and other signs of aging, and even made these things more attractive. I guess to the extent that we idealize our mothers that sort of makes sense.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^^^ I like slightly over weight - not a lot, just a little. There's something really great about that.

+1

Me too. Hate bony!

[Anonymous]

I'm 49 and have been divorced for 3 years. While I date guys around my age or older I find that while they are great dinner and theatre companions they don't have the sexual energy that I so missed in my marriage. I have a 33 YO FWB who is amazing in bed. I recently spent a week with him in the Caribbean and he really wore me out to the envy of the other ladies my age who I met, most of whom were married. At some point I know that I will need to move on as I would love to be in a LTR but until then I will enjoy myself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Has anybody noticed that this geek guy is constantly trolling for women on here? In the explicit thread he happily throws out how big he wishes his paternity wand is only to mess up the length vs. width ratio proving he's a liar. somebody get this creep a hooker!

Agreed. I'm getting creeped out from his posts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm 35, happily married and I can tell you that women 45 plus really turn my head more often than any age group.

My wife jokes that I'm not cruising high schools for chicks, I'm hanging out at Chico's stores looking for women.

Curious how common this is. Do you think you're unique among your peers? I have no idea.

[Anonymous]

Youthful looking 50 yo divorcee here. It seems very common for these young guys to come after us. I've been on a few dates with younger guys (even a 25yo!), but I've found that the guys who really get me going and catch my interest are the ones close to my age.

I'm a little envious, though, reading about those of you enjoying young FWBs...

[Anonymous]

Not to burst Your bubble, but it's because
Many of these men are lazy. They know older Women are an easy lay because they come
Across desperate yet eager. They also like the low drama. I knew a guy like this and he was a total jerk. He admitted the women were ugly and not hot, but he was just interested in sex. If you are okay with that and the sex is good I guess everyone wins.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not to burst Your bubble, but it's because
Many of these men are lazy. They know older Women are an easy lay because they come
Across desperate yet eager. They also like the low drama. I knew a guy like this and he was a total jerk. He admitted the women were ugly and not hot, but he was just interested in sex. If you are okay with that and the sex is good I guess everyone wins.

Most of the time I make the first move so not particularly interested in men who are lazy or who think older women are easy. I like men in their twenties who share the same interests as me and are handsome and accomplished. These guys don't think I am ugly since they have their pick of women. They go out with me because I am "hot" ... and "easy" but only for guys who appeal to me and I am picky.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not to burst Your bubble, but it's because
Many of these men are lazy. They know older Women are an easy lay because they come
Across desperate yet eager. They also like the low drama. I knew a guy like this and he was a total jerk. He admitted the women were ugly and not hot, but he was just interested in sex. If you are okay with that and the sex is good I guess everyone wins.

Not to burst Your bubble, but I guarantee you I don't come Across [as] desperate.

I come across as closed off, indifferent, and entirely self sufficient. Because I am. I'd bet the other PPs who have FWBs are the same.

Once you've managed to extract yourself from a long marriage that's run its course, the last thing you spend your time doing is "desperate"ly grasping for another man to snare. Hint: we're "just interested in sex" too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not to burst Your bubble, but it's because
Many of these men are lazy. They know older Women are an easy lay because they come
Across desperate yet eager. They also like the low drama. I knew a guy like this and he was a total jerk. He admitted the women were ugly and not hot, but he was just interested in sex. If you are okay with that and the sex is good I guess everyone wins.

Not to burst Your bubble, but I guarantee you I don't come Across [as] desperate.

I come across as closed off, indifferent, and entirely self sufficient. Because I am. I'd bet the other PPs who have FWBs are the same.

Once you've managed to extract yourself from a long marriage that's run its course, the last thing you spend your time doing is "desperate"ly grasping for another man to snare. Hint: we're "just interested in sex" too.

+1 Just looking for sex and companionship without looking for marriage and/or kids. BTDT. Being self sufficient and self confident with an pretty face and a very fit and slim body attracts a lot of men of all ages. Not "desperate" at all. Nothing to be desperate about. I have my pick of men.

[Anonymous]

Another PP with a younger FWB. "Closed off, indifferent and self sufficient" describes me as well. I have zero emotional energy and no desire to devote any time in an actual relationship with someone. Just looking for someone to hang it with, have fun with and have good sex with. Not desperate at all.