| Oh, so the second wife is getting old and the first wife looks better. I get it! Second wives can be very demanding, they think the husband won't get divorced again. WRONG. Second marriages fail the most. |
OP here. Did you read past my first line?
I posted this to talk about the poor children lost in the middle of this stupid battle. I'm not married to a divorced man with kids. Follow the thread if you want to post and be taken seriously. |
Don't worry, OP. No one is taking this bunch of ninnies seriously. A bunch of squawking hens who can't bear that you might actually have a point. |
Yup, poor children were what your post was about. NOT. |
Is there just one sock puppet on DCUM who writes bad English and uses exagerated metaphors? Or are there 2-3 sock puppets like this? |
| OP, are you married to a man or a woman? Fess up! |
I don't know how many sock puppets are there, but English is definitely not OP's first language, despite her/his claims otherwise. She really must be from Ukraine. Not that there's anything wrong with it, mind you, but she shouldn't underestimate our collective intelligence. |
And yet, you don't consider the men marrying them to be marrying "someone else's rejects." The hate that second wives get on this board is baffling. Of the first wives who divorce and end up remarrying, I bet a full 80% of them marry men who are also divorced. Once you get to a certain age, it's tough to find a single man worth marrying who hasn't been married before. And yet, that's okay. But God forbid the husband remarries first, and the second wife is a bit younger- then the second wife is trash, doomed to be gone within 5 years, desperate and unhappy in her marriage, etc. etc. |
PP here. Is is that hard to believe that some people actually find this hilarious, that you're all attacking her like a bunch of hens because she's hitting too close to home?? No sock puppeting. I'm just laughing my ass off at all of you. |
And the guy who marries the divorced wife? He's damned to be left 5 years later too? Because, you know, second marriages fail the most, right? |
Waaaaaaaaaaait a minute... how can second marriages fail the most? How can we have more second marriages than first marriages failing if you need failed first marriages to generate second marriages? LOL |
Not really. Yes, second marriages fail, but they fail because husbands find yet another wife. As a rich cheating man gets older, he can marry younger women. But the women he left (whose main asset was looks in many cases) are in a very different situation. |
Uhm, ever heard of percentages? You can have 0.01% of first marriages fail and 100% of second marriage fail. |
It's more like 50% of 1st marriages, 60% of 2nd marriages and 95% if the relationship started as an affair. |
Thanks for the brilliant explanation. |