So those are the girls you're talking about...

[Anonymous]

I'm part of another forum just like DCUM, a bunch of women talking about kids and their husbands. The only difference is that they're foreign women married to Americans.
There's one discussion section just for women married to older man with kids and OMG! I can totally see them talking about you ladies over here!

I see here all the time women bashing their exs' who married young girls and then I go over there, the "girls" are talking about the kids who often are called spoiled brats if they're really young, they call the ex wives names, mock them for their physical appearance, go on and on about how their DHs are awesome in bed and they can't imagine why the ex wife had no interest to be in being in bed with the guy. They feel all important when the teenager kids go look for them asking for advice on fashion, relationships, questions about sex, etc...

It's quite amusing... In the end of it all I just feel really bad for the kids

[Anonymous]

Either tell us the name of the other forum or go away.

[Anonymous]

I won't tell and I'll stay right here, sorry!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I won't tell and I'll stay right here, sorry!

So childish.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I won't tell and I'll stay right here, sorry!

So childish.

So curious ;P

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Either tell us the name of the other forum or go away.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Either tell us the name of the other forum or go away.

On second thought, just go away.

[Anonymous]

A "foreign" forum just like DCUM? Sounds made up.

As a foreigner myself who is a member of several ex-pat and "foreign" forums, I don't know anything like what you describe.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm part of another forum just like DCUM, a bunch of women talking about kids and their husbands. The only difference is that they're foreign women married to Americans.
There's one discussion section just for women married to older man with kids and OMG! I can totally see them talking about you ladies over here!

I see here all the time women bashing their exs' who married young girls and then I go over there, the "girls" are talking about the kids who often are called spoiled brats if they're really young, they call the ex wives names, mock them for their physical appearance, go on and on about how their DHs are awesome in bed and they can't imagine why the ex wife had no interest to be in being in bed with the guy. They feel all important when the teenager kids go look for them asking for advice on fashion, relationships, questions about sex, etc...

It's quite amusing... In the end of it all I just feel really bad for the kids

Way to go, OP. Make people feel bad but make sure they can't address the issue. I feel bad for you for trying to manipulate grown women for your own amusement.

[Anonymous]

Maybe it is a forum in another language? Spanish? Japanese? Chinese?

[Anonymous]

I have friends who have been those kids you feel sorry for. Kids are very resourceful. They use the "new" wife and she feels accepted. She buys them all sorts of crap and then they are gone in about 5 years (give or take 2 years).

The kids only miss their step siblings - the nice ones.

They love their moms for their courage. They understand their dad is kind of a jerk but get that everybody is human.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have friends who have been those kids you feel sorry for. Kids are very resourceful. They use the "new" wife and she feels accepted. She buys them all sorts of crap and then they are gone in about 5 years (give or take 2 years).

The kids only miss their step siblings - the nice ones.

They love their moms for their courage. They understand their dad is kind of a jerk but get that everybody is human.

Really hate seeing comments like this. I'm a stepmother, and I have stepparents. I really took those people in as my new family members, not pawns. I sent my stepmother Mother's Day cards and got my stepfather Father's Day gifts. I haven't tried to step into the role of being my stepchild's mom, and I leave the parenting decisions up to his parents, and I think we have a good relationship. Not everyone hates their stepkids, and not all stepkids hate their stepparents. I've always been grateful to my stepparents because they made my parents happy, which I could see they were not when they were married to each other. I hope one day my stepchild, when he's old enough to understand relationships, thinks the same thing- his parents are happier apart, and I was not a bad addition to his life, just another person there to love him and help him succeed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have friends who have been those kids you feel sorry for. Kids are very resourceful. They use the "new" wife and she feels accepted. She buys them all sorts of crap and then they are gone in about 5 years (give or take 2 years).

The kids only miss their step siblings - the nice ones.

They love their moms for their courage. They understand their dad is kind of a jerk but get that everybody is human.

Really hate seeing comments like this. I'm a stepmother, and I have stepparents. I really took those people in as my new family members, not pawns. I sent my stepmother Mother's Day cards and got my stepfather Father's Day gifts. I haven't tried to step into the role of being my stepchild's mom, and I leave the parenting decisions up to his parents, and I think we have a good relationship. Not everyone hates their stepkids, and not all stepkids hate their stepparents. I've always been grateful to my stepparents because they made my parents happy, which I could see they were not when they were married to each other. I hope one day my stepchild, when he's old enough to understand relationships, thinks the same thing- his parents are happier apart, and I was not a bad addition to his life, just another person there to love him and help him succeed.

I also doubt you call your step kids brats and mock their mom for her figure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I won't tell and I'll stay right here, sorry!

So childish.

Why should she leave? This is where she can enjoy the results of her malicious post. She's feeding off of this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I won't tell and I'll stay right here, sorry!

So childish.

Why should she leave? This is where she can enjoy the results of her malicious post. She's feeding off of this.

Feeding off of what? I just came here to let you know that the same way you mock your ex for marrying someone younger they're on the other end mocking you for something else.

Just keep that in mind.