Partner’s teen heard us having sex

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Where was teen that they suddenly came home? Someone came in the house without either of you knowing? Sounds like a bad idea.

It's the kid's house!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m in a very serious relationship with a guy with three young children and hopeful to be engaged soon. When I stay at their home I sleep in the guest room on the first floor. When we do get together I think we’ve mastered the art of silent sex. While it’s not ideal you do what you have to do.

silent sex is no fun. We are normal around our teens and not too loud. Our bedroom is on the other side of the house though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m in a very serious relationship with a guy with three young children and hopeful to be engaged soon. When I stay at their home I sleep in the guest room on the first floor. When we do get together I think we’ve mastered the art of silent sex. While it’s not ideal you do what you have to do.

Divorced with 3 young kids? Sounds like a catch.

It’s a long crazy story but he is a catch. Widowed, not divorced. I’m very aware of how life changing this will be so my eyes are wide open.

I’m sure an apology is forthcoming

[Anonymous]

Gross. Obviously apologize and, yeah, don't be so selfish or stupid next time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m in a very serious relationship with a guy with three young children and hopeful to be engaged soon. When I stay at their home I sleep in the guest room on the first floor. When we do get together I think we’ve mastered the art of silent sex. While it’s not ideal you do what you have to do.

Divorced with 3 young kids? Sounds like a catch.

It’s a long crazy story but he is a catch. Widowed, not divorced. I’m very aware of how life changing this will be so my eyes are wide open.

Lol good luck caring for all his kids and the damage from him replacing their Mom with you. #winning

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:
Some adults are so selfish. Yuck.

In what universe is that selfish?!?

You are insane, PP.

You have got to be kidding, sicko. No kid should be subjected to this garbage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Some adults are so selfish. Yuck.

In what universe is that selfish?!?

You are insane, PP.

I agree with this response. Not selfish.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like an accident. Not selfish.

But maybe a response like this would work:

Junior, unfortunately, my significant other and I I didn't realize you were home last night. Sorry.

[Anonymous]

Be more discreet

[Anonymous]

Unless you were loud like a porn star - - it is entirely possible that they didn’t hear anything.
At least that is what I would be telling myself if I were in your shoes. 🫣

Otherwise, I would just continue to act as normal as possible when I see them again.
Because they are probably embarrassed as you are and would like to just pretend they didn’t hear a thing.

So try your best not to be awkward.

[Anonymous]

You pretend it didn’t happen and let the parent deal with it. It’s ok.

[Anonymous]

Op, tell us more on what happened. how long it continued and what you were saying?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m in a very serious relationship with a guy with three young children and hopeful to be engaged soon. When I stay at their home I sleep in the guest room on the first floor. When we do get together I think we’ve mastered the art of silent sex. While it’s not ideal you do what you have to do.

Yeah .. No.
Who wants a lifetime of that?

[Anonymous]

gross.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Were you that noisy that you're sure they heard something? That poor child.

Yes, sex is such a bad thing.