Partner’s teen heard us having sex

[Anonymous]

How load were you? Just moans or were you saying things during? If so, what was said during specifically? Depending on how depraved of a sesh it was you made need to discuss with daughter. If it was vanilla nbd.

[Anonymous]

What’s the big deal? Did the teen catch you both on the living room couch?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How load were you? Just moans or were you saying things during? If so, what was said during specifically? Depending on how depraved of a sesh it was you made need to discuss with daughter. If it was vanilla nbd.

+1

tell us

[Anonymous]

The entire neighborhood hears us having sex. Deal.

[Anonymous]

Where was teen that they suddenly came home? Someone came in the house without either of you knowing? Sounds like a bad idea.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Kid should be able to enjoy their own home without this nonsense going on.

Next time, tell your lazy partner to get their butt out of bed and check the house first.

+1000

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't worry about it too much. Adults have sex, and you thought they weren't home.

If they were younger, say 10ish, I'd be more concerned. But a teen old enough to leave a sleepover and come home in the middle of the night is old enough to understand adults have sex.

So is it ok if this teen has loud sex in the house too?

[Anonymous]

OP, do you know if the teen heard you? You said they were in the house without you knowing and let your partner know that but it isn’t clear if they heard anything.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't worry about it too much. Adults have sex, and you thought they weren't home.

If they were younger, say 10ish, I'd be more concerned. But a teen old enough to leave a sleepover and come home in the middle of the night is old enough to understand adults have sex.

So is it ok if this teen has loud sex in the house too?

Eh. Most of us lose our virginity in our teens. I’d rather they do it at home.

[Anonymous]

I’m in a very serious relationship with a guy with three young children and hopeful to be engaged soon. When I stay at their home I sleep in the guest room on the first floor. When we do get together I think we’ve mastered the art of silent sex. While it’s not ideal you do what you have to do.

[Anonymous]

Have you met the kid yet? Super embarrassing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m in a very serious relationship with a guy with three young children and hopeful to be engaged soon. When I stay at their home I sleep in the guest room on the first floor. When we do get together I think we’ve mastered the art of silent sex. While it’s not ideal you do what you have to do.

Divorced with 3 young kids? Sounds like a catch.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m in a very serious relationship with a guy with three young children and hopeful to be engaged soon. When I stay at their home I sleep in the guest room on the first floor. When we do get together I think we’ve mastered the art of silent sex. While it’s not ideal you do what you have to do.

Divorced with 3 young kids? Sounds like a catch.

It’s a long crazy story but he is a catch. Widowed, not divorced. I’m very aware of how life changing this will be so my eyes are wide open.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Some adults are so selfish. Yuck.

In what universe is that selfish?!?

You are insane, PP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How load were you? Just moans or were you saying things during? If so, what was said during specifically? Depending on how depraved of a sesh it was you made need to discuss with daughter. If it was vanilla nbd.

Agree. There are times when I would not want what I or my partners say to be out in public, in the heat of the moment stuff that is borderline @&$/$?!&&. If it’s just a normal get the job done kinda thing it’s a lot easier to move on from.